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| Author: | onzalimey [ Tue Jan 31, 2012 7:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Getting her to seduce |
Looking for topics, vids anything on getting the women to seduce you. Did a search but couldn't find much. I'm talking about after you've opened and created some rapport then backing off a bit and getting her to ask questions, keep the interest level. Was watching a vid from daygame on how you come in with high energy then slowly level it off to where she's trying to put in the energy instead. They were saying it works even better with hot girls because they usually never have to try. Found it quite fascinating. Thanks |
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| Author: | JHA91 [ Tue Jan 31, 2012 2:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting her to seduce |
Quote: Looking for topics, vids anything on getting the women to seduce you. Did a search but couldn't find much. I'm talking about after you've opened and created some rapport then backing off a bit and getting her to ask questions, keep the interest level. Was watching a vid from daygame on how you come in with high energy then slowly level it off to where she's trying to put in the energy instead. They were saying it works even better with hot girls because they usually never have to try. Found it quite fascinating.
Rapport hooks can be very useful, not just in attraction but general conversation. There are two main varieties of rapport hooks, verbal and non-verbal.Thanks The non-verbal rapport hook means you show very slight disinterest through body language - this is after you are already mid-conversation and have already demonstrated value. Look away for a second: does she try to regain your attention? If so, then she is interested. One verbal rapport hook is very similar to the above, only you just stop speaking. For example, tell an interesting story that could potentially be very long and elaborative but be very brief and cut out all the details. But imply that there are other details waiting to be revealed. Say, 'to cut a long story short...everything worked out just fine'. Or something to that effect. She should ask more about the details if she is genuinely interested. Basically, these both lead to her doing more of the work. But this raises an interesting question; to what extent do you want her to feel in control psychologically. What I mean is that if you put her in a position where she is able to manipulate the conversation will she still want to seduce you? Difficult to tell... Then again, there is also a completely opposite problem - would she feel pressured by your attempts to impress the role of seducer upon her? |
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| Author: | JHA91 [ Tue Jan 31, 2012 2:42 pm ] |
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p.s. The user, Jay Wa, presented another similar technique in a different thread which is a simple semantic trick of switching pronouns, e.g. "How can I entertain you over a drink" (approach) "How can you entertain me over a drink" (mid conversation) My only problem with this one is the one I highlighted above - impressing the role of seducer upon her. So you have to be subtle and attain a middle ground between impressing the role on her and letting her have complete control. And that all depends on her personality as well - is she subordinate or dominant personality type. (One way to find out is through a hand shake, since subordinate personality types shake with their palms up and dominant personality types with their palms facing down. Someone who likes an equal ground will shake with their hand vertical. On a related note I normally try to extend a gentle palm up hand to a woman, since most women lie to be in control psychologically - the natural role of nurture). |
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