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Author:  needlz [ Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:59 am ]
Post subject:  How do I bring sex into the conversation?
So suppose I've got attraction locked and I'm in the process of building comfort. Obviously I want the girl to see me as a sexual person, and so I need to somehow bring sex into the conversation, without triggering any ASD she might have. Any ideas?
Author:  0uch [ Mon Jan 30, 2012 11:43 am ]
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During cold approach how I do it is
1. Have a regular conversation, but kino. (there is tons of stuff on this, Gambler gots a good video on the front page that is on the bottom)

2. Sexual innuendos. Anything she says that can make sexual do it.
Example:

Her: I wish these couches were bigger
you: then would choke on it.

or

Her: I am from New York
you: I heard very bad things about girls from New York, wonder if there true. (in a sexual tone)

or

Her: I am from New York
you: did you just say you swallow?
Her: No I said I am from New York
You: Oh sorry, is loud in here. But I am cool with that, Bad behavior fully encourage.
Her: Blah blah blah (what ever her respond is)
You: Now your saying you like anal?
Her: Blah blah blah
You: I am so putting words in your mouth now.
Her: Blah blah blah (i had girl say, you should be putting other things in there before)
You: (change topic, she should get that your joking around)

Or

If a girl talks to much, call her out and say "If you keep talking that much later on, I am gonna shut you up with oral sex" Dont wait for reaction, just change topic and move on.

Make sure you dont do any kino with sexual innuendos if your in public places. Unless of course if is a girl your sleeping with. Always be the first to drop the sexual innuendos.
Author:  Torn Stitch [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 8:32 pm ]
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I went mini golfing with a girl last night and used a few. You just need to have a constant sexual frame, kino and remember to say it cocky/funny. Here are a few I did last night..

Her- Fuck you(joking tone)
Me- Right here? At least wait till we get to the car

Her- These flies are everywhere!
Me- I know, I think a few got in my pants. Wanna get them out?

Her- Give me the stick..(talking about putter)
Me- (unzip pants then freeze) Ohh you mean the golf club.(zip pants back up)

Those are just the ones I remember on the top of my head. Just keep the right frame and don't be afraid to say sexual things. Good luck!
Author:  Refelex [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 5:38 am ]
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I use this sexual approach a lot, that and kino is the way, otherwise you are toast. BUT....in some situations after a while, the chick will think you are all about I am all about her pants and the sexual approach is not working...she is not participating or showing signs of approving that approach....what I do is go back to normal but it feels wrong to go back to normal, like you cave in to her un spoken no

I dont know, what do you guys think?
Author:  Rustyskillz [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 5:46 am ]
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"Nice shoes, wanna fuck?" Lol you better seriously be joking with the girl when you drop that one.

OR

If you really have it together... and she's bored as hell at the bar, theoretically you can approach a girl and say something to the nature of "Look, you are drop dead gorgeous. And I think that you and I would make FAN TASTIC love together."

NOW I have never done this, it has never worked in my world.

But my friend's dad is FAMOUS for it. hahah
Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 9:25 am ]
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by saying she said it.

exemple:

her:what is your strong hand?left or right?

you:umm...i thi,wait,what?you dirty girl!

her:what?

you:ive known you for 15 secondes!i am not that easy...if you like it then you should have put a ring on it!

got it?

anything she says,can become dirty!
Author:  Keksman [ Sat Feb 04, 2012 1:22 am ]
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All solid advice. As a general tip, you have to KNOW at all times that you will fuck later. Not hope, not believe, you have to know it. Once you know it, so will she. It will be like gravity, an unquestioned law of the universe. Sounds stupid, but this is the core of frame control. Everything else is bells and whistles.
Author:  otown [ Sat Feb 04, 2012 8:09 pm ]
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I usually talk about a new show I've been watching, Shameless, and the show has so much sex in it you're bound to bring it up if you're describing the show.

So i'll tell her about this funny part bla bla and eventually the sex scene will come up some how. And from there you can start talking about sex, but I never carry the convo on or she'll start to think that's all I want. I'll let her continue the convo on sex and when she stops I stop.
Author:  otown [ Sat Feb 04, 2012 8:16 pm ]
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Another thing I do which builds sexual attraction is once she says something like, I'm so stressed, so tired, I need to relax, I need bla bla, I'll tell her, "I know a fantastic technique to help you relax" in a sexual way.

She'll insinuate that you mean sex, and then I'll say no, I was going to offer you one of my FAMOUS massages. The world famous in this context is a DHV bc she'll think that you're obviously not giving massages to dudes and are giving them to girls so she'll think you're around girls often enough to have perfected your famous massage.

Besides that point, it'll make it easy for you to massage her once you have those hands on that shoulder you might as well call it fourplay.
Author:  The Lone Wolf [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 1:34 am ]
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I just add in little remarks.

When you're talking to her, say something like "Hey! Eye's above the waist!"

If you have a moment of eye contact, say something like "Stop undressing me with you're eyes!"

Add in little things like "I'm so wet" or whatever, just to get her thinking about sexual things.

One of my favourites is if she says something like "I think you'd look better without a beard" or just something that can be insinuated as her trying to change you, I'll say something like:

"I see what you're doing here...trying to mould me into your ideal lover. I'm not that easy, you'll have to at least take me out for coffee and sweep me off my feet before I jump into bed with you."

Just turned it around on her, by assuming she is trying to change you, that she wants you and that she wants to have sex with you. Gets her thinking about it all. :)

Have fun. Happy days!
Author:  Don Juan 89 [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 8:16 am ]
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IMO if you are good you don't need to talk about sex. :P
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