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| Author: | white_rabbit [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 7:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | help please, HB9 interested, now what? |
okay so ive layed down some good dhv, and im going to start showing we have things in common and that we are relating... What should i do after this, or how should i go about this? |
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| Author: | mickeyjackson21 [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 8:25 pm ] |
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you have to be careful here. relating too much can lead to a one way ticket to the friends zone. too much positive validation doesnt get anywhere. you have to mix things up to build attraction. positive and negative validation, deep rapport and you have to do some kino on her in the right way at the right times. |
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| Author: | white_rabbit [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 10:56 pm ] |
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hmmm ok i'll adjust my game plan thankyou one problem, she lives about an hour away from me, i'll have to get onto a meet up quickly to get some kino up, should i go for a private meet up, or a friends involved thing? |
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| Author: | tenonine [ Wed Dec 07, 2011 1:56 am ] |
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Gambler has some really good advice for this stage. He suggests asking questions and listening carefully to her, so as to draw conclusions about her character, her emotions and her motivations. Make a list of everything you know about her, and then consider why she's that way. That will generate some genuine curiosity and lead to some questions. So the next time you see her, you can say things like: "I can tell you're the kind of person who..." "I really admire your ability to..." "I can imagine how you were feeling when..." These conversational starters show that you're actually listening to her, which is a rare commodity in a guy. It also shows that you're not purely about knockin' boots, which is what makes her want to maul you. Finally, these lines act as qualifiers. 99% of men are dying to sleep with her just because of her great body, but you're the 1% who actually cares about her personality. That kind of selectivity is hugely attractive. |
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| Author: | white_rabbit [ Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:01 am ] |
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wow thankyou thats actually verry handy what would i do without you guys cheers |
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