So its a pretty boring night and decided to help a few guys out in need of it. Here's just about almost everything you need to know.

Well dude, once you understand how women think, its pretty easy to sense how they'll feel and how they'll respond and what you should and shouldn't say. just about every man makes it seem like they are impossible to figure out but they're at all very not.

First you need to understand your roll in this world as a man. Men are hunters and women are gatherers. Men are suppose to be tough and manly, im not saying go around kicking every guys ass that checks her out but i mean is to show you're a dominant and confidant male. Women want MEN!!! not little immature over emotional insecure boys who cant take care of them.

Second, "BALANCE" is the key to a successful relationship. Have a sense of humor and don't be so uptight, be clever and witty and make her laugh during conversations. When girls say they like jerks(many men take this completely the wrong way), they don't mean they want assholes! tease them but don't insult them, grow a set of balls and learn to say NO if you don't feel like saying YES. Don't be a yes man and give in to her every command.. So you wanna make her fall head over heals for you? Show her you'll be fine with out her, have attractive female friends and don't be shy when you're in a situation where you have to talk to a girl in-front of her. You do this by being yourself... easy right? and by the way, you don't have to be Mr. alpha male allllll the tiiiiiime geeze, its okay to be sensitive and show you have flaws and you do have feelings ya know? shows you're human. Oh yea, and don't cheat if you actually want a meaningful relationship.

Okay, and now to answer your question, "how do i keep a conversation going after an opener". Well after you get a response, all you gotta do bro.. is follow up with another question based on what she just said to you and keep doing it.... And that's it dude, that's the magic trick to a conversation. You then begin finding things you have in common and think of stories that you can relate on. All of a sudden shit happens and you're both laughing your asses off and the convo is far from dull.
Another incredibly important thing, learn to put yourself in her shoes. Think buddy, that's how you avoid saying idiotic shit..

The most important fact of all however.. You've heard it before and you'll hear it again. Practice makes perfect!

A few other things.. Do Not never ever ever let anyone or anything bring you down, people will judge you but to you it should mean nothing because life goes on(Thank God) and it happens to everyone, the only peoples opinion that should mean something are from those you actually care about. No one could ever define the person you are because you know who you really are and only you can define the person you are. If a girl shuts you down, don't feel bad about it man, its not like you were meant to be anyways. Life is a journey and when you fail at something you still gain something far greater and that is wisdom my friend. Live a happy full life, bang bitches, find purpose, practice self discipline, chase your dreams and most of all follow your heart. you'll become a better man inside and out.

any more questions, feel free to ask. one more thing actually, don't try so hard to prove you're all of these things, after you hard wire it into your brain, it all happens naturally.