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Author:  Rag&BoneMan [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 6:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Response to "you wish"?

Recently I've been having problems when using some role reversal. I'll say something like "all you girls only have one thing on the brain". Problems arise when they respond with "you wish", I freeze up with a response and it puts them in a power position. I've tried using a disqualifier in response but they loose interest and walk away/talk to someone else.

Any response to this? I'm struggling here.[/u]

Author:  brasero [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 7:00 pm ]
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IMO, this response shows either a lack of interest or a lack of sense of humor. In either case I'd just try the same role reversal on someone else :)

Author:  DanEsq [ Sun Oct 09, 2011 4:16 am ]
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"good because I just lost a tooth"

Author:  thedocta [ Sun Oct 09, 2011 5:24 am ]
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Recently I've been having problems when using some role reversal. I'll say something like "all you girls only have one thing on the brain". Problems arise when they respond with "you wish", I freeze up with a response and it puts them in a power position. I've tried using a disqualifier in response but they loose interest and walk away/talk to someone else.

Any response to this? I'm struggling here.[/u]
"You wish" is a forced response. In other words, they will ONLY say it if you provoke it, so if you can't deal with it, don't provoke it. Some negative effects of your provocation are:

1) She will usually respond with a denial like "you wish"...

2) More importantly, she will immediately try to think of ways to prove you wrong, causing her to focus on your negative aspects and causing her to lose any attraction for you that you may have previously built up.

3) It is an approval-seeking thing you said that makes you look desperate, because it clear that this is just something you wish she would say.

Rather than say "you have only one thing on the brain (sex)", you are better off turning it into a question like, "are you really trying to make this sexual again? is that all you have to think about?"

Now it's more likely that she replies with a less cocky response, more on the lines of "no im not!" which keeps you in the power position.

At any rate, a decent reply to "you wish" would be to agree with her in an over the top sarcastic way.

Author:  khuram [ Sun Oct 09, 2011 6:24 am ]
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tell them, "i want to fuck you" and when they say,"you wish" take them to your house. Man! This is going to be the fastest game ever. Hahahaha
its a behavioural pattern. You are provoking this via something that you are doing. Observe your game and get it fixed and to break this pattern, make the situation uncomfortable whenever they say,"you wish"
they,"you wish"
you go silent and start looking around as if you are bored.
They,"you wish"
you neg them.
They,"you wish"
you stop replying to their text (text game)
you see i am making the situation uncomfortable for them, and if i am cool and they are uncomfortable then its their problem. The only way for them to get out of it is to stop saying,"you wish"
TEACH BITCHES HOW TO BEHAVE AROUND YOU IF THEY DON'T KNOW.

Author:  Dr. Jones [ Sun Oct 09, 2011 6:30 am ]
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I've gotta say, no matter what you said to provoke it, "you wish" is about as original as "I know you are, but what am I?"

School yard!

Author:  Rag&BoneMan [ Sun Oct 09, 2011 3:43 pm ]
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Awesome stuff thanks for the replies guys. I'll work on using questions as oppose to statements with role reversal and punish the behaviour if it persists.
I'll post here with any developments after field testing this :)

ta

R&B

Author:  wil master [ Wed Oct 12, 2011 2:43 am ]
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depends on the situation, if she is being playful, say ''oh, like u have a chance'' i say that all the time, it always make the girl laughs..

Author:  Untld [ Thu Oct 13, 2011 2:00 am ]
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i would just hit her with a blank emotionless face, pause then hold for a moment or two and then say some whimsical shit and laugh

Author:  PRookie [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 8:45 am ]
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I would just look at her as if she was a retard and laugh and say "good comeback hahah"

Author:  R.C [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:02 pm ]
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I would just look at her as if she was a retard and laugh and say "good comeback hahah"
It's pretty much genious but careful with the delivery. You want to make her feel uncomfortable about it , not make her think ur a jerk.

Author:  Mantis- [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 6:33 pm ]
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I would just look at her as if she was a retard and laugh and say "good comeback hahah"
I would not say this, for the reason ^^^^ said
I think its lack of interest, try changing the delivery, I usually do role reverals semi joking, always get positive response.

If she says it bitchy, just ignore it and change the subject

Good luck with it next time :)

Author:  Rag&BoneMan [ Sat Oct 15, 2011 10:49 am ]
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What I've found easy recently is just using a disqualifier to brush this off. As with any remark along these lines. At first it seemed counter-intuitive but saying something like "aw thats cute... but you're not really my type". After this she'll punch me on the arm playfully and we'll carry on from there.

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