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Author:  goldenghetto [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 4:28 am ]
Post subject:  Creating attraction through text
Alright so, ive only met this girl once and it was just a neutral interaction. nothing bad, nothing good really. My friend gives me her number a week later because i need a date to something in a month. Heres some of the conversation where i think attraction started to take off (apologies if it seems long, trying to get as much feed back as possible). replies usually take 30mins-1/2 hrs:

me: I know this great tutor, he's pretty dashing if i dont say so myself
her: didnt know u were into that but thanks we could prob share =] ha
me: dishing it out, nice. trying to get me in bed though? youre too forward for me
her: haha im not what u up to tonight
me: tour de franzia then who knows *its a drinking game*
her: ha fun shot
me: what are you gettin into tonight?
her: just drinkn
me: just drink no raging? *midnight*
her: ha just chilln, lot of ppl were busy *next morning*
me: that means you need a bigger social circle
her: no i have a big one ha i just didn't rly try ha thank god its fri though
me: people tell me i have a big one too
her: well that's fun =]
me: just imagine if we combined ours. all that fun seems unreal
her: omg that would b fn crazy ha
me: try not to have a orgasm thinking about it, it may seem hard
her: ha i'll b good thanks
me: are you always so tightly wound?
her: ive had a shitty week ha sorry =/ *later found out she broke up with bf*
me: why has it been shitty?
her: o just lots of things ha
me: so come out with me tonight. fun seems to follow where i go
her: ha what u doin
me: (friday night) my friends having a party at his house
me: (sunday afternoon) so how come i didnt see you this weekend?
her: ha busy i guess u have fun?
me: too busy to come have fun with me?
her: sounds terrible huh
me: thats what happens when you dont come hang out with your favorite guy ;)

conversation is still going i guess. I can feel the attraction starting to get lost though, really need to build it back up.
Author:  khuram [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 4:47 am ]
Post subject: 
main mistakes
1. Not handling the sexual escalation properly.
2. Not qualifying (and its a mistake that 9 out of 10 guys who get advice from here make) hell, you can qualify while texting
corrections
1. Whenever you talk about anything sexual be sure you are the first one to end that (in your example you are not doing that)
2. Whenever you talk anything that is sexual, release that also.(you are not doing it also) you can release by teasing them or adding an iod.
3. Qualify her. Yeah, fuck, qualify her. And for those who don't know, qualification also builds attraction.
And use the, "escalate sexually and blame it on hb" technique even while texting.
"hey if you were here i would have bent you over the table and... Omg, look what you made me thinking? You are so cute. It sucks, you are sooo bad :D"
i hope that helps
Author:  goldenghetto [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 5:33 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
main mistakes
1. Not handling the sexual escalation properly.
2. Not qualifying (and its a mistake that 9 out of 10 guys who get advice from here make) hell, you can qualify while texting
corrections
1. Whenever you talk about anything sexual be sure you are the first one to end that (in your example you are not doing that)
2. Whenever you talk anything that is sexual, release that also.(you are not doing it also) you can release by teasing them or adding an iod.
3. Qualify her. Yeah, fuck, qualify her. And for those who don't know, qualification also builds attraction.
And use the, "escalate sexually and blame it on hb" technique even while texting.
"hey if you were here i would have bent you over the table and... Omg, look what you made me thinking? You are so cute. It sucks, you are sooo bad :D"
i hope that helps
Could you give an example where i could have done this better? Or perhaps critique one of my responses
Author:  khuram [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 5:40 am ]
Post subject: 
you talked about
1. Trying to get you in bed
2. Ragging
3. Tring to orgasm
and everytime she was the one to either reject or end the topic.
Second thing
you are getting sexual here. But you are not pushing her away. You jump from trying to get you in bed to ragging to trying to orgasm without even once pushing her away.
Author:  goldenghetto [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 4:53 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
you talked about
1. Trying to get you in bed
2. Ragging
3. Tring to orgasm
and everytime she was the one to either reject or end the topic.
Second thing
you are getting sexual here. But you are not pushing her away. You jump from trying to get you in bed to ragging to trying to orgasm without even once pushing her away.
She didn't really reject or end the topic when i mentioned sleeping together. She said "omg that would be fn crazy ha"... in my head shes going along with it. But ya it did seem like she kind of brushed off the orgasm comment, maybe that was too fast and direct?
Author:  detox75 [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 5:40 pm ]
Post subject: 
Hey Ghetto I think the text you posted her looks pretty good. It was light, funny , cocky, and flirty and I don't think you got too sexual as she seemed responsive to the level you were at.

I suspect the bigger issue is trying to create a lot of attraction from texting. Its works on a black and white screen, not your best nexus from stiring vivid and heartfelt emotions. I have come to realize its limitations and limit it accordingly.

From where your at I would chill on the texting and try to isolate her for a meetup. If that's impractical for now i would keep the texting to a minimum, you dont want to become her texting buddy when she is bored.
Author:  The Dutch Shinigami [ Wed Oct 17, 2012 1:13 am ]
Post subject:  funny guy
yo this is the shininigami for you! dont text her 4 a week than text her using the tips above mentioned... but also text her that you had a date and you need her advice be creative... also send her op disturbing pictures to shock her be different in every text you send good luck
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