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| Author: | Ct88 [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 11:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Friend, starting to become more? (i'm on the right track) |
So theirs a girl who is friends with my sister, (might have mentioned her before lol) and shes hb8 or at the least 7. We've been hanging out a lot, she even cooked for me, and we talk for hours on facebook almost every night. the other night she was worried I thought she was trashy or slutty, (caring what i thought) i made it clear that I didn't think that, and I would make remarks about liking blondes (she's brunette) and she made the comment "blondes are trashy" and we talked about stuff and I used DHV to heighten myself in her eyes, and The other night she was sleeping in my sisters room as we talked on fb and I was helping her with somethign and said "im gonna go off prob be up for a bit so if u screw it up and need help come see if im up if i am i'll help if not well ur on ur own cause unless ur a hot blonde with your top off, im not getting woken up lmao" Her response was bahaha ugh fine. ill get the hair dye ready just incase Then I said "ok yeah you better cause with just the top off only a 50/50 shot i'll wake up" she said "ugg fine" so thought it was interesting and I think I did pretty well. _______________________________ Also Her: omgg i need to get up so soon. Me: sorry i kept you up all night and wore you out Her: bahaha oh boy Me: lol yeah youd be saying "ohh" a lot lmfao sorry had to haha im done...for now lol her: haha Her you woulllld Me: ohhh i feel bad now though putting all these ideas in your head and you dont have a shot with me lmfao YUP I WENT THERE Her: bahaha you never quit do you Me: nope quitting's for quitters ______________________ How's it going do you guys think? also a little more THe next mornign I had class at 11. My sister who drives me has class at 8 so i usually go with her and sleep in the car WELLL her(well our) friend said she has to go that way anyway and offered to drive me and on our way there we talked and nothing really substantial was said. So what now? am i already screwed or do i have a shot? |
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| Author: | NJPuaStarter [ Wed Sep 28, 2011 3:59 am ] |
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haha, i like where this is going very interesting read actually |
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| Author: | Ct88 [ Wed Sep 28, 2011 11:06 pm ] |
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ANY TIPS, ADVICE, CRITICISM IS APPRECIATED |
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| Author: | Omalie Cat [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 12:15 am ] |
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Sounds like she is definitely into you. You need to start escalating a bit. Make it known that she actually DOES have a chance. Otherwise you may over do it and scare her off. Personally, i'd put her on a point scale. Anytime she does something you like, give her positive points. Anytime she does something bad, you take points away. Make up some things she can cash her points in for. 10 points kiss on the cheek, 20 points and you'll take her out for coffee. Playing this game is fun and it will really build some positive complience momentum. |
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| Author: | TechSkill [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 5:48 am ] |
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You appear to be in the "Friends" category. I don't see any real flirting to be honest. Any chances you had to build attraction are ruined by your nervous laughter. Quote: Me: lol yeah youd be saying "ohh" a lot lmfao sorry had to haha im done...for now lol
You see? You made a daring sexual escalation, but came off as insecure because you apologized and typed "lol, lmfao, haha, and lol again" all in one line! You need to demonstrate some higher value in order to build attraction. I saw a lot of great opportunities! When she said blondes are trashy, that would be a fantastic time for you to call her out on it, and be like, "You know, all jokes aside, I know a lot of beautiful and intelligent blond girls, and I take offense to that." After a long pause where she begins to wonder if she fucked up, and begins to apologize, you could completely bust her and make fun of her for actually thinking you were serious! The point is, you shouldn't be afraid to build tension, and break it with glorious resolve! She is clearly at least somewhat interested in you, so if you just take that advice seriously, I think you'll go a long way! Edit: Also let me add, you're lucky, haha! My sister never brought any hot friends over while I was growing up! |
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| Author: | Ct88 [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 6:58 am ] |
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So you dont think i'm too deep in the friend zone? |
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| Author: | Ct88 [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 3:32 pm ] |
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UPDATE! So she stayed over last night and we've been talking about watching the series FRIENDS for like a week so last night she stayed over to hang with mys siter but my sister passed out at like 12 so Im in my room and the girl (lets call her L) messaged me and were talking I say im putting on FRIENDS cause I couldnt sleep...HEre's the msges Her your sister is falling asleep on me Me (intentionally waited like 10 mins to respond) lol what's up her nothiiiing i think im going to take an ambien because i cannottt sleep lol ME i cant eithe lol gonna be a long day but at this point im like fuck it might as well stay up andust drink a few five hour energies HER yeah seriously. what time do you have to leave? ME im actually looking for "FRIENDS" online l want to watch it now lol 630-7 Her ahahaha id totally watch it with you hha unless youre trying to relax n shit lol just sayin ME lol nah im looking for my harddrive with it now, ur more then welcome to come join me HER haha awesome id love to. im gonna finish this cigarette lol as long as im not intruding haha ME: i wouldn't of offered if you were dont worry (I feel like I could of did something here but couldn't think of what) her: thanks did ya find emm? ugh this jeff kid randomly decides to im me and give me his life story ME: Im not gonna tell u who to and not to talk to but im telling you right now kid is trash and yes i did u have a tough decision ahead of you....I have FRIENDS......BUT i also have almost every disney movie of the passed 25 years her: yeahh oh i know. ive never even talked to him before. random people always use me as a therapist honestly. and hmmmm its upto you the friends game kinda put me in a mood for ir lol ME: lol same here wow I have this harddrive FULL between Friends, Scrubs, Entourage, Disney movies and every other type of movie imaginable lol i get reallly crazy with downloading Her: ahahah in HD?! Me: uhmmmm no they never released FRIENDS in HD but with my program it'll look as HD as it can look Her: haha thats awesome. this kid really needs to chill and realize i dont care about him and hallys relationship -___- (at this point I dropped my laptop)-____________- what did you just break Me: .....dropped my laptop Her: ahah oh noooohhhh Me: dude be a bitch and just close the convo and IGNORE HIM hes worth nothing more (I reallly hate the kid she was talking to) Me: and I like everybody and i think he should rot in a very special part of hell holy shit its pouring starting withoutttt you Her: oh freall its that bad? haha he seems like a tool mE: worse then a tool you know those big ass boxes of tools like the four different compartments thats him hes an uiltra tool box Her: im trying to end this conversation haha and lmfaooo good analogy Me: its onnnn HER ahhh i heard it. im getting closr -___- lol he wont stop. he was bitching about him and hally and im like stop taking some crazy shit so seriously and now hes writing some shit ughhh Me: JUST CLOSE IT HAVE BALLS say i got to go and GO Her: haha im coming in your room. ill let him say his piece then go lol _______________________________ After she came in she mentioned how cozy my room was. I have surround sound, big screen tv and a futon, last night my couch (futon) was in a couch position I think i'm going to unfold it next time i'm casually watching stuff just so I can be more comfortable and see what happens. Also Shes hanging with my sister today I figure i'll try the roleplay technique and when I walk in act like the old fashion 50s married couple joke like shes my wife and my sister is our daughter and complain that dinner isn't on the table and kiss her on the cheek (as my wife) and see what happens. |
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| Author: | Ct88 [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 6:32 am ] |
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We haven't hung out since, but i'm curious what ways I can escalate, any suggestions |
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| Author: | juice man [ Fri Oct 07, 2011 10:23 pm ] |
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bro im sorry but this is gay best friend convo.... i think its too late 4 ya man...UNLESS u give a hard core freezeout and come back in a whole new person.... IN MY OPINION. that whole convo where u ask her to join me i think u shud of said. "yea come over". Reread your entire conve with her.. TO ME it sounds like if it were 2 girls talking to each other. Bro next time u message each other TAKE YOUR time and sound like an alpha male.. I wish you the very best. Im currently in a similair situation to yours but im not talking to her everday. and i sparsley txt her and when i do its sweet n short. Ima believer that messageing /facebook/ txt messaging should be used for setting up dates. so bro, re analyze your situation. Dont sound like her gay best friend when u have convos and DONT put nervous laghter. I hope you do get her though.. its gonna be tuff man but i believe in you... you can do it! |
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| Author: | Ct88 [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 7:34 am ] |
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thanks for the tip, curious for anyone to confirm his theory, or give me advice, i'd appreciate it, working on escalation now. |
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| Author: | Brysti [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 8:46 am ] |
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Ct88 That was a quite boring conversation... Try more C&F. Also, incorporate some sexual framing, because now you're risking the "forever friend zone". I think it might not be too late, so try some sexual framing and lots of C&F. Don't start negging though ^^ That would be pointless and stupid |
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| Author: | BirdBoy [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 12:27 pm ] |
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You're not showing her any boundies, and eventually she will walk all over you. You're constantly apologizing and accepting her when she wants to be with you. You're busy with other chicks, and if she wants to be with you, she'll have to get in line. If you don't turn her away, she will get bored and it's just showing you're needyness. "You want to go into her world and demonstrate authority over it" -BB |
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