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Hey guys, I'm new here, but I've been doing alot of reading around the subject of PUA!
From what I've gathered, the kino trust test is about TRUST at first and then COMPLIANCE.
- The first step is as you mentioned holding your hands with palms face up; now assuming your partner trusts you or even likes you enough at this stage she will put her hands palm down on your hands without even thinking about it. If however she offers you her hands with palms facing up and nowhere near your hands then you should take that as a sign that she doesn't trust you or like you.
- Once you have her trust, you then squeeze her hands and see if she reciprocates by squeezing back which means she is on a subconscious level complying with you.
- The next step, also involving compliance is moving her hands around while holding them in a pretty random manner just to see if you get any resistance which shows a lack of trust
- If all goes well with this test, it might be a good idea if you have reached the appropriate stage with the girl to escalate kino i.e. hug, kiss etc
- If at any point you sense resistance or a lack of trust you neg the girl and DHV in the most natural way possible!
Hope this helped!
This did help a lot. I will be confident in giving this a try next time I'm out!