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Is it a good way to tell her this by eliciting all her personality traits that I like and match my standard?
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It basically means I'd tell her a bunch of cold reads one after the other customized to her personality, filtered by my "requirements". Is that not going to give her too much validation? How about Catstring theory, should you continue that in a relationship?
No. No to all of the above.
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What I mean is, what do you say when you agree to be in a relationship and you make it "official"?
You say, "I want you to be my girlfriend, exclusively." I have the feeling you won't be satisfied with my answers. To have a healthy relationship, stop all these games you mentioned above. She is asking you questions like "What are we?" because you're a confusing person, playing "cat-string" and "cold-read" "customized" blah blah blah. Just stop.