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Author:  Consistence [ Wed Mar 24, 2010 8:17 pm ]
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Smiling after reading the topic? Well, you should be;) Maybe your girlfriend will celebrate her birthday next week or maybe your relationship has hit the 1-year mark, I can't know that, but I can provide help regarding the gift(s)you will give her in next to no time!

You have probably come across the guys that give their girlfriend a new car, the newest version of IPhone or a bag of money from which they can buy their own gifts?! Nice things, can't deny that, but the majority of girlfriends would most likely prefer more of a personal gift(s). After all, you know your girlfriend better than anyone else (expect for her family etc.).

Try giving her a gift which includes something she will be happy about instantly, and something she will remember forever. For instance, every womans wedding-ring brings back good memories (in most cases lol!).

--> The consumable part of the gift is meant to create an intense feeling of happiness (or other similar adjectives), preferably all the different emotions that women like to feel at the spot;) Tickets to a consert where her favorite artist sing, the chocolate she has always wanted to taste or a reserved table at her favorite restaurant!

--> However, whatever you consume eventually disappears. So you use the tangible gift, to give her something to touch and smell, that will link back to that wonderful time she had, and also to you. This way many years into your relationship, not only will she grow attached to that tangle you bought her, but it is also the tangle she got on her birthday by you. The one you gave to her right after she got suprised by finding all her friends at the restaurant you invited her:)

- Consistence

Author:  Brendan [ Fri Apr 02, 2010 9:36 am ]
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good post. ive often had problems buying gifts for my gf's

Author:  Mauser [ Mon Apr 19, 2010 4:56 pm ]
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A game I played once with my ex was to wrap 2 different gifts in identical boxes, each with a hint about what's in the box. The rule was she could only open one and would never find out what was in the other box. The reason I thought to do this was that we had been dating for a long time and I was starting to run dry on ideas for a really special, personal gift. The 2 gifts I got were just 2 different pieces of nice jewelry that I knew she would like, but the game I played with her made it very memorable. It drove her nuts wanting to know what was in the other box.

Author:  The Bachelor's Code [ Mon Apr 19, 2010 5:14 pm ]
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I always give gift cards. I don't put any money on them, I just stick them inside of a card that I made, with construction paper and markers. Usually I get a call two weeks later, and usually they are inside starbucks or wherever the card is from and they ask me:

Her: Did you put money on that card?
Me: ...No....it's a GIFT card...the card is the gift, and you can put as much money on it as you want! You're Welcome!

And since YOU aren't putting money on it, it is a very inexpensive gift.

Author:  Brendan [ Tue Apr 20, 2010 1:49 pm ]
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I always give gift cards. I don't put any money on them, I just stick them inside of a card that I made, with construction paper and markers. Usually I get a call two weeks later, and usually they are inside starbucks or wherever the card is from and they ask me:

Her: Did you put money on that card?
Me: ...No....it's a GIFT card...the card is the gift, and you can put as much money on it as you want! You're Welcome!

And since YOU aren't putting money on it, it is a very inexpensive gift.
that is horrible.

Author:  Mrmonk [ Tue Apr 20, 2010 1:53 pm ]
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roofas you the man howd that work out for you tho ? :lol:

Author:  The Bachelor's Code [ Tue Apr 20, 2010 3:31 pm ]
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Brendan I'm sorry you think it's horrible.

Mr Monk, I actually do it as a joke and it's always quite funny. I'm glad you like the idea. I tell them it's a gift card, and that it has no money on it. Then I tell them they can put as much money on it as they want in a really excited voice.

In reality I don't ever buy gifts for girls. My gift is that they get to see me. You can criticize that if you want...

Author:  Mrmonk [ Tue Apr 20, 2010 8:40 pm ]
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yeah me neither aside from bdays and xmas and that kinda stuff going to try this out on the next chick that complains i never treat her
:lol:

Author:  omans02 [ Tue Apr 20, 2010 9:41 pm ]
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I have one of the worst habit of not buying gift for women, but I get gifts from them on a regular basis, come to think of, they getting to see me is more than enough gift :D :lol:,

Author:  zige [ Wed Apr 21, 2010 1:16 pm ]
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I'd just like to add a few things.

1.) Mail something to her. Even if you see her every day. Do it anonymously so she does not know who it's from until she opens the box. Leave a short personal note or something inside also. Everyone loves getting stuff in the mail!

2.) Tickets to something your girl likes are always a good gift. Take a picture with your cell once you have the thickets if you can and send it to her as a surprise.

3.) Just be random and unpredictable but thoughtful. Gifts after fights work OK, but with my EX I always felt like the actions and forgiveness that came with the gift were the real gift.

Author:  The Bachelor's Code [ Wed Apr 21, 2010 1:45 pm ]
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omans-That's exactly how it works man! It is counter intuitive but less is more! The less you give the more you get...

Author:  General Lamb [ Wed Apr 21, 2010 7:26 pm ]
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I love the gift card idea Roofas, might have to use that!

What I like to do is save up crappy freebies that I've come across, wrap them up nicely and give them as a gift, one of my favourites was a free DVD called "Shifting Gear" that was basically an advert for commercial vans. The laughs that come with such lame presents are usually good!

Although I don't think my current girlfriend will appreciate it, a couple of days ago she spent 10 minutes whining at me to buy her some diamond earrings because it would be nice to own some diamonds.
Of course there's no chance of that happening, I'd much rather be single than a walking credit card. :]

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