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| Author: | bonexcrusher [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 1:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | I;m in a dark place right now i need help |
My fiance told me she would never smoke pot without me. Well she did and she did it with her ex-b/f and she didnt ask me, she just mentioned it causally as if she did nothing wrong. I almost ended it right there, but we tried talking about it and she was like 'i didnt think i had to ask your opinion'... Idk what to do, please help. Bone |
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| Author: | dark one [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 4:53 am ] |
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Hmmm well first of all she shouldnt be hanging out with her ex's....IMO If you or she are a couple then you should not be hanging out with ex's or for the most part any one of the other sex. If I had a gf and I found out she was hanging out with another guy alone....or even worse an ex! I would be upset as well and I would deff let her know that is not cool. If she has a problem with that then tell ditch her....trust is every thing man and If you cant trust her then you have nothing. If I cant trust a girls I wont be with her. |
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| Author: | Swoop [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 6:27 am ] |
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hmmm, how long have you been with her? How long was she with her ex? What is their relationship like currently? The good news is, she knows how you feel. Give more info if you dont mind. May help us to know some of the smaller things. |
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| Author: | gauz [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 7:39 am ] |
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smoking in itself isnt a big deal, it just comes down to how well you know her and how well you trust her with her ex. however, since she is your fiance youve gotta be doin something right and maybe you should give her the benefit of the doubt this is the best i can say with the little amount of background on her and her ex that youve given |
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| Author: | dark one [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 6:52 pm ] |
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If you can not trust a women you plan on spending the rest of your life with then you should not be with her period. Get some back bone and stand your ground....if cant stop hanging out with her ex then tell her to hit the road....If you relationship is starting on a bad note then chances are it will end that way as well....you want to get married and then 5 years down the road break it off? no I didnt think so. |
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| Author: | nightrider767 [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 7:27 pm ] |
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I'd suggest, keep your cool. Don't look like an AFC. But, if she's smokin weed with her ex, she ain't thinking about marriage that much. Doesn't sound like she's really with the whole plan. Are you the one pushing this marriage? Good luck bro... |
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| Author: | bonexcrusher [ Sun Apr 05, 2009 1:33 am ] |
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She told me in a message that she would marry me after we graduated highschool if i asked and i wanted to, so i asked. She was friends with her ex for 2 years they dated for about 2 weeks and at the start of the relationship she told me she wouldve gone farther with him if they had lasted longer, according to her all they did was he would sneak over to her house when her parents werent home , but she claims they never got past making out. |
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| Author: | Swoop [ Thu Apr 09, 2009 12:26 am ] |
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HIGH SCHOOL!? Dude dude dude..... I think that is a bad call. You shouldn't marry so young. I can't say it will for sure, but there is a good chance you guys are going to regret missing out on certain things, mostly your late teens early 20s. During this time people need to experiment with dating, find out what they REALLY want. Not saying you dont want her now, but what if you find you guys want something else in 3 years? see this thread 9-years-2-kids-shes-moving-out-wants-a- ... highlight= for reference My vote is NO on the marriage. Go live your life, experience different things. |
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