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About the exclusively thing. I am like 90% sure she hasn't done anything with these guys. It is because she is a single mother who shared custody of her kid and the majority of her free time has been spent with me and she has been staying over my place whenever we are together.
If she's sexting other guys, they are guys she's fucked, or is fucking.
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I did have issues in bed a couple times but it was due to heavy drinking and when I sobered up I was able to give her some good nailings so I think I'm doing my part there.
Too many guys on this forum are lushes. Blacking out and getting wasted is beta behavior.
and no, my friend, if you were REALLY showing up in bed, she wouldn't be sexting guys.
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Haha. I might just call her out on it and see what happens
You are not exclusive. There is nothing you can do except walk away, or show up better.
Right now, you're the nice guy bitch who buys her dinner and takes care of her without her being emotionally invested enough to want to be exclusive...while she sexts other guys who excite her.
If you want her in your life and to respect you, get her off the pedestal and treat her in a way congruent with what you are: friends with benefits, nothing else. No dinners, no emotional texts, no listening to her problems with her kids, etc. Just fucking...nothing more nothing less. Date other women, too.