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There's a difference between texting constantly, and texting every day.
If you're initiating contact with a girl every day that early, you're doing it wrong, and you're not busy.
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When you say I "wouldnt text a chick I fucked daily" can you see how that sounds moreso that you're doing it for HER, as opposed to being busy?
Who cares? Either way it works in the man's favor.
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But challenge doesnt mean how often you text.
Sure it does.
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I'll take it that by orbiters you mean guys trying to have sex or date. Sure, a hot chick can have tons of guys who want her, but if dozens (I'll take hundreds a day as hyperbolic) of guys are texting her a day...why is her number out there like that to all these needy guys?
Women give their numbers out to men. They do it to avoid face-to-face rejection, they do it because they are half-interested, they do it because they are very interested.
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a chick who is giving her number like that to receive unwanted attention is an attention whore.
Women give out their number looking for a dominant male and passion...a man to take them from the mundane. They aren't attention whores for doing so. And the less dominant the man (and emotionally needy, IE over-texting) the more it will feel like she's playing games or "seeking attention" when the reality is she's just on the fence.
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A hot lawyer isn't having a dozen guys text her a day to get with her because that's distracting. She's busy. A chick who is laying around the house? Sure.
The profession simply doesn't matter. A woman seeking the right man will give out her number to men...especially independent, strong women who aren't afraid of their sexuality.
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Have you found a lot of attractive women who werent "raised by social media" and wouldnt withdraw if you communicate with them? And no, not communicate constantly, like you can text them every day and they're not distracted by social media? Where "challenge" isnt how often you text, but what you communicate when you do? These are chicks sounding closer to teenagers than adults. And sure there are many attractive women like this, but definitely many who are perceptive enough to know who to give their numbers to and have grown out of the phase of chasing the guy who texts them just to meet up.
This forum, and everything about this forum is learning to control your emotions and to act in a dominant way in order to attract the most attractive women.
We are competing with other men to bed women consistently, and to perhaps have a relationship.
Regardless of age or profession, finding the right person is a number's game. And if you are attracted enough to a person, you will chase.
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Its no big deal...its just sometimes I hear you talk abt attractive women and I agree with alot of it, but imo that applies to a subset of attractive women. Not even the younger ones, past 21 if a chick's phone is blowing up from unwanted guys 20 times a day, thats more her immaturity than her level of attractiveness. There are fat chicks with big boobs who do the same thing.
I think 20 is a bit much. That truly would be attention-seeking behavior, or perhaps a girl who is just confused and unsure, but even more likely is she's surrounded by beta's and has not found a dominant man who is good in bed.
But I also think it's realistic to understand that a 9/10 will have guys in her contacts list, perhaps a guy she is interested in, a guy she's kissed, a guy she's fucked, an ex-boyfriend who she still has an emotional attachment, etc.
When she finds a truly dominant male, these people will slowly fade from her life, and her phone, organically. she's not bad, or wrong, or immature.
It's just science.