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My mistake. You said she asked if you guys are more than just sex and not fun. Basically, the same question by trying to validate her importance to you. It was just a little over two weeks and your response was to show her that she was more than sex. It was perfectly ok with you to have it strictly a sexual relationship with you until she indicated that she may be looking for more than that and that caused you to react. I'm not saying that your response to it is neither bad nor good. I'm just saying that all of this "me the catch" isn't really realistic. If you were the prize, you wouldn't have needed to change what you were doing. In your case you liked her and weren't willing to take the risk...even though she agreed to it just being about fun and pushed it to relationship after the fact.
You're kind of creeping me out by going so deep into my love life, Jack, while failing to bring any personal details of your own into the discussion. You bring it up fairly often out of the blue. I get you may be too insecure or inexperienced to impart personal details, but you should at least make an effort.
Something to chew on.
It would be cool if you talked a bit about things on your end.
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I dig this girl a lot. We've been seeing each other since January 1, about 3 times a week. Sometimes she spends the night, other times I hit up her place.
The other day I get the "are we more than sex?" text, so I surprise her with dinner out and she's very happy. Then she invites me over to her place for a movie and says "no sex" because her stomach hurts. Normally all we do is have crazy sex, so this day is the first no-sex hangout.
Is this a valuable use of your time?
I'm going to kindly ask you to get off my ass, and stick to the OP's topic. Spend more time with women, and less digging through ancient posts.
You put the information here to be read, so don't let that bother you. I've posted a lot of information about my personal life on the forum. More than you have actually. But why would you be crying about that? Are you looking for something to make me look bad like you tried and failed with the pictures while making yourself look less credible?
To me, it is actually a very valuable use of my time. I like seeing different ways that guys are successful with women. No one hypes up their success as much as you. You've went as far to show pictures of a girl with my name in both pictures to promote your success and to paraphrase what you said: Sometimes you have to man up and prove yourself.
If you're going to tell someone why they're wrong and that person uses examples provided by you, don't you feel obligated to clear up any confusion? You drove the conversation here, so don't be mad if I remember the entire story of how you got your girl and can point out statements that look contradictory. Clear them up and move on. If you deflect, it just makes you look like you're not being honest and you deflect a lot.
LMAO...Ancient posts. You mean the posts that tells the story about how you got your current girlfriend? You don't think how you got your current girlfriend, the one you have as of today that you used as an example of how you get women, shouldn't be talked about when it comes to the consistency of your advice? No, I'm going to stay on your ass whenever you contradict yourself.
Arch, if you notice I wasn't being disrespectful towards you when I pointed out that you aren't being consistent. I didn't say anything out of line and actually went out of my way by saying that the way you went about things was better than the story that you tell now. Whatever blow to your ego that is causing, it's not my doing...it's your own documented telling of the story. You can try to attack my experience with women if you'd like, but that doesn't change a word that you've written to when it comes to the woman that you are supposedly with. Even if I were a fraud, as you wish I were, it doesn't change the story that you've told and now are revising. If you were honest you wouldn't have anyone say a word about you.