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| Author: | Synic [ Thu Aug 06, 2015 8:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | What would you do? |
Girl I've known for a while Closed the deal recently about a month ago Had sex the first night Turns out we Had a strong connection Been seeing each other few times a week ever since with daily texting. Go on a Couple dates She texts me ever night good night She would confess how great she thinks I am, How into me she is. How comfortable I make her feel She seems into me She comes out to celebrate my birthday in Mexico with my friends We're really close the whole trip & We are vibing really well She keeps telling me I'm out of her league, I'm the best sex she's ever had! She's lucky we have a thing right now We hook up one last time before she goes to a rave over the weekend. Doesn't text me whole weekend. She gets back and texts me Monday. I make sure to text her back sparingly as punishment. And get back to her the next morning She offers to come over for professional reasons (she's also my assistants, temporarily) I tell her she should be coming to just hang out instead. Vibes are definitely different. Things seem normal in person yet little wierd with the hello kiss We hang out & hook up again. I tell her I like her a lot & hint at us being a couple. She normally reciprocates the same feelings this time she didn't She responded "I don't know what you see in me I'm out of your league" She's not though...she's super hot We part ways because we have to get back to work. I tell her to text me later... She doesn't I text her the next morning "hey cutie what are you up to" She texts me hours later pretty short answer I haven't text her back yet, I'm thinking about not doing so for another day. I would like to see this turn into a relationship but vibes are definitely way different and think something else is going on with her. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Thu Aug 06, 2015 10:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do? |
Stop dude. She was pushing pushing and pushing. She was building you up and becoming your new foundation for self confidence and so once she removed that by disappearing you fell into the trap of chasing to get back that which isn't being upheld by something else. This is an ego driven thing and if you want to spare yourself any non beneficial emotion I would leave her to realize what she is losing on her own. Let her come around. You know how things get a raves and if he behavior switched directly after than something changed after that day. She could of taken a pill, met someone or whatever and it changed her mentality. But you have to leave her be. The door says "pull" so pull. Pushing it won't open it. She'll be back on her own time. |
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| Author: | Synic [ Fri Aug 07, 2015 3:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do? |
Quote: Stop dude.
Dude I appreciate your feedback. Thanks for the advice She was pushing pushing and pushing. She was building you up and becoming your new foundation for self confidence and so once she removed that by disappearing you fell into the trap of chasing to get back that which isn't being upheld by something else. This is an ego driven thing and if you want to spare yourself any non beneficial emotion I would leave her to realize what she is losing on her own. Let her come around. You know how things get a raves and if he behavior switched directly after than something changed after that day. She could of taken a pill, met someone or whatever and it changed her mentality. But you have to leave her be. The door says "pull" so pull. Pushing it won't open it. She'll be back on her own time. I was thinking the same. I've been very non-texty lately, & haven't spoke to her since. I think I'm playing my cards right here. I just don't know what it was. I'm wondering if it could have been me or something. It's rare for me to like a girl this much. I got a follow up question, do you mind if pm you? |
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| Author: | R.C [ Fri Aug 07, 2015 8:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What would you do? |
The more you chase the faster she starts running. She seems to have some self esteem issues going on but she's clearly into you. I don't see a problem here. Don't hyperventilate. |
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