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Author:  DW-Heart-Charmer [ Fri Jul 24, 2015 1:08 am ]
Post subject:  My View On Relationships
I have been thinking a lot on relationships lately and I wanted to go into at least how I view them. Now I have had a few long term relationships since I have been in game 3 years now, both open and closed relationships, but I have found this to be an area of life where most non-PUA guys get crazy with.

First, I don't believe that you can really get to know someone well enough to make them your girlfriend quickly. She has to earn this privilege with me. The one girl I dated exclusively in the past three years, she had to wait 5+ months for that opportunity.

When you start dating someone, I leave out any expectations. She may want me to be her bf and I may be so attracted to her I want the same at some level, but you don't know she is of the quality to even consider that at the start. Plus, what if the sex is terrible? Yes some girls are absolutely awful lays.

The first goal is to have sex with her. Then you can see more into who she truly is and what she is ever after. Most things are not communicated with words, it is all actions.

I move then to see her once a week. It should be a meet leading up to sex. If you see her as an FB then no date. If you are still considering her for an MLTR then go for the date. If there is no sex after the date I will give a soft-next, not talking to her for three days.

Soon she should be fighting to be the only girl in your life and you should be dating several women at a time. How are you going to decide on the one girl if you had no basis for comparison, or no options?

At about a month she usually brings up the relationship topic, IE "Where is this going?" I avoid this one because I still need more time. Usually it is some smart ass comment followed by changing topic. Then I am communicating that we are not discussing this right now.

Then at two months she will bring up the topic again. At this point you have to address it. If you don't want a girlfriend you tell her, but state that you really care about her and would like to see her still. Alternatively if you want to make her your girlfriend at that point, do it!

Of course all of this goes without saying that finding relationships and such should go with your current life goals. If settling down isn't something you don't want to do or something that doesn't support you in your life, don't do it!

I don't ever lie to my girls. Honesty is important and it is not just about what you say, but what you do. If you know how to communicate really well in these ways, you can form relationships that others think are impossible.
Author:  Hi5indianescort [ Sat Aug 01, 2015 6:27 am ]
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Author:  n2thevoid [ Sat Aug 01, 2015 6:55 am ]
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^^^lolz
Author:  J.Daniels [ Sun Aug 02, 2015 6:38 pm ]
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New guys coming along with all their showing off, trying to get their post count up. We all did it once 8) :twisted:
Author:  younglady [ Wed Aug 05, 2015 2:30 pm ]
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You genuinely believe that the way to find out who someone truly is, is to have sex with them? :shock:
Author:  DW-Heart-Charmer [ Thu Aug 06, 2015 1:15 am ]
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You genuinely believe that the way to find out who someone truly is, is to have sex with them? :shock:
Oh yes. At least this and then much much more time together.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Thu Aug 06, 2015 1:15 am ]
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You genuinely believe that the way to find out who someone truly is, is to have sex with them? :shock:
Oh yes. At least this and then much much more time together.
You've got a lot to learn
Author:  maria_ [ Thu Aug 06, 2015 12:08 pm ]
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You genuinely believe that the way to find out who someone truly is, is to have sex with them? :shock:
Oh yes. At least this and then much much more time together.
You've got a lot to learn
+1
lol
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Aug 06, 2015 5:38 pm ]
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You genuinely believe that the way to find out who someone truly is, is to have sex with them? :shock:
Oh yes. At least this and then much much more time together.
You've got a lot to learn
Please don't disagree with the OP. He get's sensitive about that.
Author:  Dragula [ Thu Aug 06, 2015 6:03 pm ]
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*In before the text screenshots of fake convos of girls trying to prove the thread wrong*
Author:  DW-Heart-Charmer [ Thu Aug 06, 2015 11:33 pm ]
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You've got a lot to learn
Impart your wisdom on us. What better way is there to get to know a woman than to have sex with her?
Author:  J.Daniels [ Thu Aug 06, 2015 11:59 pm ]
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Us? You're on your own lol. How about actually talking to her like a normal human being? I didn't realise that fucking a woman will make you understand her name, her job, how many kids she has, her life goals and her past... silly me.
Author:  maria_ [ Fri Aug 07, 2015 4:32 pm ]
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@j.daniels
you live and you learn lol
Author:  J.Daniels [ Fri Aug 07, 2015 5:26 pm ]
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@j.daniels
you live and you learn lol
Precisely :P
Author:  DW-Heart-Charmer [ Sat Aug 08, 2015 5:03 pm ]
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Lol I didn't think you would share your knowledge with us.

"You're not worthy of the knowledge I have so I won't share!"

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