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Author:  H-Two-O [ Sun Nov 02, 2014 6:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Any thoughts Gents??
I had a girl from East Europe. She works as a cabin crew. We have been going out for about 6 months. We travelled once to Dubai too.

I treated her like a queen really, I open the car door for her, carry her shopping bag. I normally assist her in taking or putting on her shoes..etc.

She knew that I was planning to marry her, she was fine with that.

But, two weeks ago I told her that I have kids from my current wife which we are going to separate and she suddenly dumped me :shock: not answering my calls or texts. I stopped texting and calling afterwards.

I told her that I would be a cheater if I wasn't going to marry her but I was serious about proposing to her.

This girl was flaky from the beginning. It took me a while to go out after we exchanged numbers, she kinda wanted to break up once claiming that she is travelling all the time, she rejected having sex with me once claiming that she is on a period and I should have told her in advance that we would have sex that day. Once we had sex and she didn't continue claiming that her vagina hurts for whatever reason or because we didn't have sex for weeks?!!

To me it seems she just found an excuse to flee. If she truly loved me she wouldn't leave me so easily like that. I told her that I just wanted our relation to grow a bit before I tell her but, she doesn't change her stance. What do you think guys??
Author:  neo87 [ Sun Nov 02, 2014 9:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Any thoughts Gents??
Quote:
I had a girl from East Europe. She works as a cabin crew. We have been going out for about 6 months. We travelled once to Dubai too.

I treated her like a queen really, I open the car door for her, carry her shopping bag. I normally assist her in taking or putting on her shoes..etc.

She knew that I was planning to marry her, she was fine with that.

But, two weeks ago I told her that I have kids from my current wife which we are going to separate and she suddenly dumped me :shock: not answering my calls or texts. I stopped texting and calling afterwards.

I told her that I would be a cheater if I wasn't going to marry her but I was serious about proposing to her.

This girl was flaky from the beginning. It took me a while to go out after we exchanged numbers, she kinda wanted to break up once claiming that she is travelling all the time, she rejected having sex with me once claiming that she is on a period and I should have told her in advance that we would have sex that day. Once we had sex and she didn't continue claiming that her vagina hurts for whatever reason or because we didn't have sex for weeks?!!

To me it seems she just found an excuse to flee. If she truly loved me she wouldn't leave me so easily like that. I told her that I just wanted our relation to grow a bit before I tell her but, she doesn't change her stance. What do you think guys??
No....No...No...

Someone come in an break this down
Author:  younglady [ Sun Nov 02, 2014 9:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Any thoughts Gents??
You were dishonest with her. Leave her be, and maybe try not to omit details like your WIFE AND KIDS next time you want to marry a woman?
Author:  Tiika [ Mon Nov 03, 2014 10:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Any thoughts Gents??
Keep distance and let her be.Throwing her news like that suddenly from nowhere are in fact hurting.
Author:  H-Two-O [ Tue Nov 04, 2014 5:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Any thoughts Gents??
Guys..I do appreciate the fact that you want to share your thoughts. But could you please elaborate more? Explain please instead of the very short replies that im getting. (please)

I understand that it is very wrong to jump right off and say to any woman that I want to marry you. That is what I did. I allowed sometime for our relationship to grow, then I told her.

I would 100% agree that I were dishonest and were a complete cheater if I just wanted her for fun without her knowing, BUT I wanted to propose to her and she knew it.

How is it that I have two boys would affect her anyway??!! Im the man and i'm the one to carry the bills..Honestly even the girls at work they said that it shouldn't matter to her anyway and if she loves you she would be willing accept.

Also I didn't like kept that a secret for a year or more, or after that I had proposed to her. I only told her after 6 months..I think I was very fair. Well perhaps I could have told her that from the first month or so but I just didn't know if that would have been better off with that?!!

So do you want me the next time I go approach a girl to say:" Hi..my name is X and I'm a single can I marry you? "
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Nov 04, 2014 1:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Any thoughts Gents??
Quote:
Guys..I do appreciate the fact that you want to share your thoughts. But could you please elaborate more? Explain please instead of the very short replies that im getting. (please)

I understand that it is very wrong to jump right off and say to any woman that I want to marry you. That is what I did. I allowed sometime for our relationship to grow, then I told her.

I would 100% agree that I were dishonest and were a complete cheater if I just wanted her for fun without her knowing, BUT I wanted to propose to her and she knew it.

How is it that I have two boys would affect her anyway??!! Im the man and i'm the one to carry the bills..Honestly even the girls at work they said that it shouldn't matter to her anyway and if she loves you she would be willing accept.

Also I didn't like kept that a secret for a year or more, or after that I had proposed to her. I only told her after 6 months..I think I was very fair. Well perhaps I could have told her that from the first month or so but I just didn't know if that would have been better off with that?!!

So do you want me the next time I go approach a girl to say:" Hi..my name is X and I'm a single can I marry you? "


I think you're getting short replies here because you're wondering what's wrong in a situation where none of us (well at least me) can fault the girl.

You're married, with kids.

You're cheating --- and fine, if that's how you want to live your life, absolutely cool with me...

When you told the new chick you were married with kids, and she decided 'fuck that!' and took off, you're wondering why that is - when it seems fairly evident that she just wasn't down for that situation... and probably was a little pissed you didn't mention it sooner.

Hopefully I read your post correctly - the English is a little spotty.
Author:  brian.fritz1 [ Tue Nov 04, 2014 1:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Any thoughts Gents??
Dude I highly advice you that you work things out with your current wife. You have no idea what child support is for now a days for 2 kids.

As for the other chick you literally did the most fucked up shit you can ever do to a chick. It's right up there with telling her you had Aids or something. (Yup it's worst than cheating) Sad thing is that if you ignore her and stop appollagizing to her she might be heartbroken enough to go back with you.

As long as you keep appollagizing and saying how sorry you are she will never go back with you even if she wanted to.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sat Nov 08, 2014 4:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Any thoughts Gents??
Sounds like she is dealing with a couple of other men. Its nothing really to complicated. She'll pop back up again when she needs a favor if you don't contact her anymore, but I think you need to work on cultivated the level of masculine magnetism so that a woman wants to do those things for you. A woman wants to serve her man and if she can not do that she will not be able to love him the way she can love a man that allows her to serve him.

I'd chalk this one up for now. If you need any additional help, just PM me.
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