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| Author: | anon737 [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 11:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | LDR Moving Forward |
I'm in a relationship with this girl I met online. Ive known her for two years and things were great at one point in time. However things are not so good now. About year ago I had a manic episode and ended up thinking I was god. I dont know what she thought about this but she stayed in contact. After the manic episode I fell into a depression. I ended slashing my arms and going to a mental institution. The entire time I was in the mental institution I thought the entire world could hear my thoughts. Needless to say while this was going on I became very needy as she was my anchor to reality. After a while she became to busy for me and was never able to talk. Now I am better and back in school and have a life, but I still want to talk to her. We message each other but its only one message a day, she insists on playing the waiting game so I end up doing it too. I drink myself to sleep every day sometimes going to parties, so I never contact her during that time period, but I want to speed things up, because this one message a day thing is getting ridiculous and things never move forward. Any tips? And yeah i know this online relationship thing is pathetic, but I'm not the guy your imagining. I currently have three other girls I'm working on, all in my city, and ones a model. Ironically I still prefer talking to the girl I met on the internet. I still have absolutely no idea what to do. Again my question is do you have any advice for me? |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Jul 01, 2014 12:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: LDR Moving Forward |
Whats up dude, I know what you mean, I would have my share of girls in my city and then would randomly meet some women online that I just enjoyed speaking with. And sometimes they weren't even all that attractive; we just had a connection, so I feel you. And I personally had to come to the understanding that these internet relationships are so dope, because the mind is allowed to form a fantasy. its allowed to make the women out to be things that they probably aren't. I'd meet some of the women and just be completely disappointed because they were nothing like I imagined. Its a mental thing. Whats your overall goal with the girl? Do you just want someone to speak to or do you actually have intentions on being with her? And FYI, you can have a million other girls you are talking to in your city, but if you don't actually like them it doesn't count. When you finally meet 2-3 women that you have genuine feelings for all at once, you'll know what i mean. |
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