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| Author: | 3way [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 9:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Major fuck up with my gf, was drunk texting |
My girlfriend is graduating from business school and things have been going well recently between us, but because she is busy we haven't spoken as much. Then I did this; Me; I don't understand why you no longer want to talk GF everytime you talk to me i did have an impediment Me its okkk babyy im busyy too, try makin me an impediment lol dont worry about it dont let me get bored GF you won t get bored i promise baby Me haha you better hope not GF why?? Me are you seeing anyone else? GF why aee y askin this?? Seriously fuckin i m out with someone and they were askin if i love i said yes i can t believe you doubting my trust Me don't talk to me like that show some respect! you asked me the same thing a week ago GF forget about it it s my fault goodnight. Me what do you mean you are out with someone, a guy? this is ridiculous goodnight GF with my fuckin friendssssssss ME (CRINGE) Fuck it. I'm not that bad relax, my tongue's in my cheek a little. I fucking miss you. GF that s how you show it?? Thank you for ruining my evening i m goin back home GF now everyone noticed that i m mad and has read your fuckin message and has their word in our relationship Do I; a) Apologise b) Apologise for not trusting her but also state that I'm disappointed at how she spoke to me c) State that she's shown me a lack of respect and that I'm disappointed in her In all cases I will wait until she contacts me. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 12:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Major fuck up with my gf, was drunk texting |
Wow. Those weren't the best. You may be taking the 'alpha' thing and "don't disrespect me" a little too far. You need to bend a little sometimes - particularly when she has valid points (such as jumping to conclusions that she's out with another guy). Apologize, say you were drunk and had a bad day... I really don't think you should be waiting until she contacts you either. She didn't do anything wrong... you did. |
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| Author: | mach1 [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 2:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Major fuck up with my gf, was drunk texting |
Sounds like your chasing her and she's being cheeky...you gotta try turn the tide. We can never be 100% what girls are doing but second guessing ain't helping! |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 3:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Major fuck up with my gf, was drunk texting |
Were you really drunk? You've posted abt this chick before. Do you not trust her? Only thing you can get on was her showing others your messages |
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| Author: | norwegianburns [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 8:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Major fuck up with my gf, was drunk texting |
Don't worry about it. Don't take it so seriously would be the best response. haha I was in a similar situation with a HB I had a crush on. I think you should apologise though for being in the wrong here but after the two guilt trips right there... fuck it as said below |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 9:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Major fuck up with my gf, was drunk texting |
Her last messages were just a guilt trip. Trust me she didn't go home. Lol... Just chalk it down to being drunk. Act like it never happened unless she brings it up then act dumb to it. Not THAT bad but it's not great either. Honestly, just carry on as if you never messaged her. She's just looking for attention by saying she's going home and trying to emotionally blackmail you by saying her friends know that you annoyed her and "have their say." which is total bullshit. What age is this girl? 15?? Lol. |
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| Author: | LIFE PUA [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 10:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Major fuck up with my gf, was drunk texting |
You come off a little bitter to me, and I am sure she noticed it as well. She is trying to guilt you. Drop it, if she wants to talk about it brush it off. If you must give an excuse, be honest, you were drunk. But the best but is to change the subject. It is only a big deal it you let it. |
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| Author: | Noaz [ Fri Jun 27, 2014 4:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Major fuck up with my gf, was drunk texting |
I thought that "haha you better hope not (that I'm not bored, or I'd be with other girls" sounds like a threat, and on the other hand, I didn't understand why asking "are you seeing anyone else?" is a problem? Is he supposed to trust her blindly? |
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| Author: | jeffyp [ Fri Jun 27, 2014 4:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Major fuck up with my gf, was drunk texting |
Dude, you sound paranoid and too alpha (aka stuck up), especially when you say something like 'don't disrespect me'. Demanding respect like that is a disrespectful thing in it of itself. It'll be bad if you ignore it. Call her up as soon as you have time and apologise. Additionally don't be stingy about the 'guilt tripping'. It's her reaction to all the shit you gave her and for all you know, she could've gone home straight after that so it might not have been guilt tripping at all. On the other hand, be sure to mention to her that it was rude of her to show the messages to her friends. Because it was. |
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