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| Author: | max_il_dandi [ Fri Nov 08, 2013 10:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | how to handle mixed signals |
I dated a girl for 2 months and we had a great time. She broke up with me for no good reason, thinking I cheated on her. 3 months later (after no contact at all) she contacted me again, saying she wanted to see me or she will explode. So I went ahead and met her. It was nice seeing her again: she told me she dreams about me, doesn't sleep, wanted to see so bad, flirted, holded hands, hugged etc. I was really surprised, I tought she forgot about me completely... A day later I started texting her telling how much I miss her, I wanted to see her again,... Everything went well. The next day we did the same thing, only she was a bit different and suddenly rejected all my offers. I got a little frustrated, couldn't understand why she changed so much. I tried to convince her with all I got, but no luck. I think I send a bit too much texts, pushing my will on her. Hell!!! I told her I had feelings for her. That scared her away. I knew I was going to f**k up before I send all these texts, but still I did it! Don't know why. I haven't heard from her for one week now. I really want to see her again, but don't know how to handle this kind of situation... She's ignoring me Can someone tell me what to do? Why does she tells me she likes me first and than rejects all I try? Guys, PUA'ers, everybody tell me your opinion and how can I conquer her back? Should I apologize? ignore her? Do something special? I need this one... |
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| Author: | Rough Operator [ Fri Nov 08, 2013 12:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to handle mixed signals |
Quote: Should I apologize? ignore her? Do something special? I need this one...
There's your problem... You NEED this one.She contacted you again and you instantly jumped back to being insanely into her, was probably too much. A lot of guys on this forum say that often exes contact you again just to know they can still have you, sometimes after they break up with the guy they were seeing after you, and I think they're right. She said she dreamed of you, probably an idealised, fantasy version of you and the real thing could never add up I'm sorry to say. You showed neediness and she ran off, classic story. Your best option is NC, just move on and try to meet other girls. It sucks, but despite what you feel now, she isn't a special little snowflake. A few months of NC will make you realise that. |
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| Author: | Evan E [ Mon Nov 11, 2013 3:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to handle mixed signals |
There is no failure, only feedback. I agree with the first reply - chalk this one off to experience. She may contact you again in the future. If so, great, you'll know what to do this time. If not, no big deal. |
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