Hey guys,
I got a weird problem.
My girl and i have been together for 2 years now. Things are great but now they are getting weird. Shes into business as am I and recently shes been spending all her time with this girl who works for her.
It's all good they are not lesbian or anything autho her friend does swing that way but it's cutting into my time. Tonight she just ran off and told me shes going to bed then I find 3 hours later at 12am shes at a cafe working with this girl. They are going away together for the weekend next week and it's like I am 2nd in this relationship now because that girls taking all the time with my gf.
Yes I still get alot of time with my gf but so does this other girl and it's messing with me abit.
I got upset tonight and called my gf up about it. Told her how I felt and was met with "I need to get some sleep bye"
Not sure how to best deal with this other than taking a step back from the relationship - it's just messed up. I am the type of guy who thinks your gf should be your best friend but right now this other girls getting more loving than I am.
What should I do? Is this a normal thing for some types of girls? Should I relax and let them hangout all the time and just go find more friends of my own to hangout with so it doesnt bother be?
Thanks
P.S. in the last week intimacy has gone way down and she doesn't want to stay over at mine. no explanation :/