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| Author: | dynamation [ Thu Aug 15, 2013 1:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | how to deal with long distance girlfriend |
Ok here's the story. She's a freshman and I already graduated and I am working in another city while she is staying on campus this summer at a fraternity. We got into a relationship a month ago and she only visited me once since the relationship started (and it was because she had to be in the city anyway). Anyway I have seen her texting and exchanging emails from a guy that I know. I didn't read the texts or emails because I want to trust her. The guy and I are cool but we aren't great friends and I wouldnt trust him. She told me before she hasn't lied to me. I was video chatting with her and she ended the call early when the guy walked in the room. (They live in the same fraternity house) I didn't see him and he didnt see me, but I recognized his voice. Afterwards she just texted me sorry, movie night. Anyway she also tells me that next summer she is going on vacation for a month with some friends. I asked her to take me but she was like you got work. She said she wants to visit me before school starts in 2 weeks. I asked her to pick a date she said she will pick it later. What should I do about this situation? Should I confront her about the guy? |
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| Author: | havegunwilltravel [ Thu Aug 15, 2013 1:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to deal with long distance girlfriend |
She's a freshman your already a graduate, you live in two different places and your relationship has not been a long one....meet her again, try to bang her some more...then move on or keep her as a second option. This will never last, long distance rarely does but this one is guaranteed to fail. |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Thu Aug 15, 2013 3:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to deal with long distance girlfriend |
^This. In college there was a rule "You don't marry a freshman" meaning don't get into serious relationships with freshmen. You're not even in college anymore, and trying to do long distance with a freshman. Man, that's not something I'd bet on, no offense. Points: 1. It'll be tough and near impossible for this to work as she's a freshman and you're a graduate. PLUS Long distance! Sooner or later she's going to want to get the full college experience, meaning single life. 2. She likes this other guy/and or is hooking up with him. Shutting off is a sign she doesnt want HIM to see YOU. 3. You've only been together for a month and YOU are making plans for NEXT YEAR SUMMER? What? That's smothering. Stop Enjoy the college ass but don't take it seriously. |
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| Author: | dynamation [ Fri Aug 16, 2013 2:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to deal with long distance girlfriend |
to be fair, she is going to be a sophomore. but I think you are right. I should pick up a new one and keep her as option #2? Altho I feel like I could marry this girl...idk |
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| Author: | havegunwilltravel [ Fri Aug 16, 2013 2:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to deal with long distance girlfriend |
Maybe under different circumstances you would marry her but not this one. Trust me get other girls keep her as your side, you live long distance its not like she will ever find out. This is why they say nice guys finish last, you will be to nice and try to be faithful and let other opportunities fall through your fingers...I have been there and its shitty as fuck, don't do it! |
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| Author: | AFCToTheMax [ Fri Aug 16, 2013 8:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to deal with long distance girlfriend |
I have started dating a girl when I was already working and she was 18 just going to college. Also it was long distance. When I say long distance I mean you have to fly to get there. It worked somewhat, she was loyal, she was crazy into me it lasted 3.5 year and I broke up with her eventually which almost break her heart. What I'm trying to say is that it can work. It's higly dependent on the girl, and the environment, you have no control what so ever. BUT. I wish I never did long distance. You are wasting a lot of precious time which you could spend with a girl who you can actually do fun stuff on a daily basis. I recommend you get out of this now, or get another girl and keep this as a fuck buddy, in which case be honest with her |
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| Author: | Themagicalone [ Wed Aug 21, 2013 2:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to deal with long distance girlfriend |
Quote: Maybe under different circumstances you would marry her but not this one. Trust me get other girls keep her as your side, you live long distance its not like she will ever find out. This is why they say nice guys finish last, you will be to nice and try to be faithful and let other opportunities fall through your fingers...I have been there and its shitty as fuck, don't do it!
OP you've gotten good advice. Personally I wouldn't ever trust a sophomore in college i'd keep her as a #2 as I'd assume she's doing things on the side so I will have my fun too.
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