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Author:  Danzella [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 9:19 am ]
Post subject:  April Fools "dumping" joke

Holy fucking shit am I pissed!

Woke up to a text from my girlfriends saying "Text me when you wake up" so I did, this conversation went down

Her: I don't know how to say this
Me: So you're ending it then
Her: I'm sorry
Me: Why?
Her: I have feelings for someone else
(this is when I stop replying while deleting all forms of contact)
Her: Dan..
Her: Don't ignore me you're making me feel nervous
Her: DAN
Her: I feel so bad, April Fools

I haven't spoken to her since, this happened about an hour ago. Am I over reacting or do I have a right to be pissed off with that?

Author:  Wizzay [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 10:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: April Fools "dumping" joke

Full right to be pissed, you can make jokes but not like this. Maybe if you begged her to stay, she wouldnt say its a joke and really break up ??

Author:  Danzella [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 10:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: April Fools "dumping" joke

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Full right to be pissed, you can make jokes but not like this. Maybe if you begged her to stay, she wouldnt say its a joke and really break up ??
I was actually thinking that exact same thing!

Author:  king0s [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 10:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: April Fools "dumping" joke

U should not be pissed.. but may be she would ve said its true if u had begged n asked her to stay.. thats just a probability.. anyway u have the upper hand now and u have the choice to be pissed.. what do you choose?

Author:  neo87 [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 12:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: April Fools "dumping" joke

Sounds like a bad april fools joke. I woke up a few mins ago and thought about doing the same to my gf but figured she'd KNOW since it's April fools its a joke. It's kinda obvious.

You did well though because you didn't beg so if I were you I wouldn't act pissed. Her joke backfired and now she knows that you're not a begging bf and can walk away easily.

Author:  Danzella [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 12:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: April Fools "dumping" joke

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Sounds like a bad april fools joke. I woke up a few mins ago and thought about doing the same to my gf but figured she'd KNOW since it's April fools its a joke. It's kinda obvious.

You did well though because you didn't beg so if I were you I wouldn't act pissed. Her joke backfired and now she knows that you're not a begging bf and can walk away easily.
Yeah, I think because I had just woken up it didn't really click what day it was! Still, she seems to be chasing me more than ever now so it worked out in the end, haha!

Author:  Absoliutas [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 8:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: April Fools "dumping" joke

Dude have a laugh.......it's funny.

I wanted to do it for my gf but did "will you marry me instead..."

...blah blah blah...
ME: Will you marry me?
GF: Oh YES! YES!
ME: Happy Aprils fool!!!!!
GF: I hate you (hang up)
ME: trololololol

Then she called back and we both had a good laugh :)


:lol:

Author:  Dr. Spargenator [ Tue Apr 02, 2013 4:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: April Fools "dumping" joke

sounds like an april fools joke, mixed with her testing you to see how upset youd be if she left you. just text her. she obviously likes you and is probably upset right now.

Author:  N1ck9141 [ Tue Apr 02, 2013 11:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: April Fools "dumping" joke

I would have simple sent her one more text saying "thats not something you joke about" and left it as that, for a while mate let her chance you let her think she has fucked up, and dont be ashamed of standing your ground it fucked you off you can show it but dont be played for a mug !!! i would treat it as if you have broken up and make her come running back mate she will at first you refuse she will get pissed off and angry u ignore then she will get kind and upset again then u can react :)

Author:  smushed [ Tue Apr 02, 2013 11:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: April Fools "dumping" joke

Don't be such a baby. :) Absoliutas has the best response.

Author:  Danzella [ Tue Apr 02, 2013 8:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: April Fools "dumping" joke

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sounds like an april fools joke, mixed with her testing you to see how upset youd be if she left you. just text her. she obviously likes you and is probably upset right now.
The thing that got me pissed was the whole "I have feelings for someone else" line, she knows I've been screwed over in a previous relationship by something like that actually happening so for me, that was taking it too far. That, and I didn't realise it was April Fools day!

Anyway, after freezing her out for a while I told her why it pissed me off, she's been chasing me every since saying stuff like "I didn't realise how I felt about you until today, I love you so much" etc.. etc.. so its kinda worked out for the best, even if I may have slightly over reacted, I didn't show her I was THAT effected.

Author:  Demitri [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 12:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: April Fools "dumping" joke

update...

Author:  smushed [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 7:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: April Fools "dumping" joke

That's brilliant that it worked out really well for you. Nothing like a little temporary dump to get a person to realize how they feel.

Author:  Rough Operator [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 4:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: April Fools "dumping" joke

Personally I would be pissed off at that. Don't mind April Fool jokes, but not ones like that.

Author:  AFCToTheMax [ Thu Apr 04, 2013 9:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: April Fools "dumping" joke

Glad you sorted it out and yes it was right to be pissed of by this.
The difference between Absolutias case and the OP is that his message is actually funny :)

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