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| Author: | Chinopants [ Sun Sep 16, 2012 8:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | S&M and a girl who wants to get in to it |
So I hooked up real easy with this wild chick on Okcupid. Like just cumming over to play and what not. Well its still going good but she let on that she wanted more. She was wanting to get in to the S&M play. I give great spankings but don't have much experience with what or how do be a Dom or at least some one that can hold her attention. Does any one have any good advice or books that they would recommend. She showed me a book that she kept in her sex drawer. She told me she bought it at one of the sex shops around town. I am not shy and I know its a life style that has a framework that is set. I am sure there is a lot of bad advice too. An no I am not about to read 50 shades of Gray. |
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| Author: | Wolfwoodd [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 3:40 am ] |
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I highly recommend this book: http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send- ... 0964596008 Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns It covers all the basics. Secondly, get some non-stick bondage tape.. it's easier to use than rope and more comfortable than handcuffs. Here's a link for that stuff: http://www.amazon.com/Bondage-Tape-Blac ... B000AOMEN2 . Tie her up with the tape, spank her, use some sex toys on her and have fun! -Wolf |
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| Author: | Chinopants [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 7:35 pm ] |
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Thanks man. Just ordered the book and got a little tape. Saved on super saving shipping. Might keep you all posted on how it unfolds. |
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| Author: | Mr. Gatsby [ Fri Sep 21, 2012 10:54 am ] |
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Sleeping Beauty by Anne Rice. Look into a website called fetlife, you can read a lot about the scene on there. Things you need to take into consideration. These kinds of girls like to be told what to do. Best thing you can do is start her off with a little homework. Find a fetish list and get her to fill it out, after she has done that sit down and talk to her about what it is that she wants, how hard, how often and to what degree. Once you get into it, the biggest thing you need to know how to do is called aftercare. I explain that after I explain what can happen. When you go through a hard session what you can do is trigger things she may of experienced in her past, feelings she is not comfortable with or just put her in a state of unease. When you are done you need to make sure to care for her in that overly nice guy kind of way, hold her and make sure she is alright, bring a cool towel to wipe her face with and use the most soothing voice you can muster. Ropes, handcuffs, hot wax, ice, choking (learn to do it right before you try this), paddles and many other things can be your toys. Look into that website and see if you can find some workshops around you, its a fun thing to do. Just understand, this is a rabbits hole and not all of the girls you run into are going to be sane. I was at a dungeon the other day talking to a girl, asked her how long she had been in the scene and she told me since she was three. Thats more common there then you might want to believe. So be careful. Hope that was helpful, if there is anything else I can help you with feel free to message me. |
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| Author: | Chinopants [ Fri Sep 21, 2012 7:46 pm ] |
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Thanks for the info. I already have a fetlife profile but never did much with it. This could be fun. I think its something I want to explore more. |
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| Author: | DreamGirl [ Wed Sep 26, 2012 3:35 pm ] |
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You are getting into something very dark and dangerous. Sure pleasurable momentarily but with Grave consequences for the both of you! Do read "Eleven Minutes" by Paulo Coelho, if you want to be a better man and understand both men and women better. This is a friendly warning! |
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