My Daddy always said, "Never bring the competition along!"
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| Author: | CountRedRover [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 8:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | lets say my gf meets my pua friends.. |
I dont trust my pua friends around my gf. I feel like I have to set myself up as a turrent to kill all "building attration" going on that my friends would be trying to do. Any advice? Just feel uncomfortable introducing them to each other. |
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| Author: | Eyyt [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 9:55 am ] |
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Don't be threatened. It will make your value lower and theirs, higher. Feel free to introduce them. but don't forget to remind your friends "bros before hoes". Making her meet them raises your social proof. This will send a subconscious text in her mind saying "wow. my bf do really have good friends. maybe he influences all of them. Great, im lucky to have him. ill never let go" see what social proof means and you'll never worry about getting dumped. |
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| Author: | 870 [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 11:29 am ] |
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The fact that you're worried about it says more about your insecurities than it does their skills, but the bigger issue here is that you seem to be 'friends' with a bunch of people you don't trust. Your boy, 870 |
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| Author: | pablohernandez [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 1:13 pm ] |
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In 'Pulp Fiction', Marsellus Wallace not only trusts his friend Vincent Vega around his wife he trusts him to take her out on a date even though he is a smooth dude. Its not that he trusts his wife, he probably doesnt but he trusts his friend because he clearly chooses his friends very very wisely (and he is a bad mother). If you dont trust your friends then you need different friends. Thats what makes a friend right? Id let any one of my mates take my girlfriend to see a film or for drinks. |
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| Author: | Furiox [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 2:57 pm ] |
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Trust is a very rare personalty trait these days. Cheating is not that big of a deal anymore to a lot of people and so are moral standards. Even though we are very advanced animals we are still animals. Like everybody i also heard crazy and fucked up trust stories where your girl goes off with your best friend or she fucks your dad. Those stories are extreme examples BUT it does show that it's really not that easy to have some really good friends who are loyal in every situation. Look at all those people and even yourself how you are talking shit behind each others back. We are all guilty of talking behind your friends back, this is also trust! In person you are best friends but when your with another friend it often happens you talk some shit about him. So 100% trust and loyalty is close to fantasy, under the right circumstances trust and respect has lower priority then having your bros back. Advice: Just be the coolest dude ever and have a mindset of i am number #1 in the world and if she disrespects me she can find herself another dude who is not even half your value. |
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| Author: | Reo [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 5:32 pm ] |
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Depends on how long you've been dating if its only been a few weeks then i wouldn't recommend it the way you talk sounds like your friends are snakes. If its a new relationship you haven't really established yourself as the man she could go for one of your friends. If you're the only one showing up with a girl all it does is create male competition. Friends or not they're going to probably be drinking trying to show off in front the girl and it leads to you trying to 1 up eachother and potential fall outs after you're friends have cracked a million jokes at you're expense or brought up some ex girlfriend story. If your friends bring a girl then yes if not then no. Why do you feel the need to show her off to your friends anyway, go chill with the fellas and leave your lady at home. I'd only introduce her to my close friends for the time being. |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 5:54 pm ] |
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My Daddy always said, "Never bring the competition along!"
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| Author: | bella [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 3:55 pm ] |
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you should be able to trust your girlfriend. and your friends but your girlfriend more. i would work on confidence and the relationship |
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| Author: | dark one [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 10:04 pm ] |
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Guys are scum bags! 99% of the friend I have would sleep with my gf I would put money on it! there are only a couple guys I think I could trust but I don't let it phase me....you just have to have confidence in your self and give off an energy that is positive. People can tell when you are faking it! so just be your self and don't worry, you know who you are, you know your a good catch, and you have nothing to worry about, end of story! p.s If it was me and one of my friends tried to move in on my girl and I got wind of it he would prob end up in the hospital lol loyalty is an important thing and imo if you sit there while a good friend hits on you gf you look like a major beta! most times I would say don't get physical but if a good friend hits on your girl that is crossing a line! just my two cents. |
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| Author: | Sly_Wolf [ Thu Jun 14, 2012 5:12 am ] |
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I hope they are not close friends of yours. I would never worry about my friends betraying my trust like that. The ones who would I am aware of and don't really consider them friends. |
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| Author: | MrDriver [ Thu Jun 14, 2012 5:45 am ] |
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Quote: I hope they are not close friends of yours. I would never worry about my friends betraying my trust like that. The ones who would I am aware of and don't really consider them friends.
I totally agree here! There is a strong rule in the lair that we are in, once one guy has locked his target, she's off-limits for the rest! And girlfriends are for sure a no-go area.
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