PUA Forum
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/

Best way to approach being dumped by a girlfriend?
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=128&t=137485		 Page 1 of 1
Author:  chazman0426 [ Sun Jun 03, 2012 7:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Best way to approach being dumped by a girlfriend?
I was just wondering what is the best approach if a girl you are dating or your current girlfriend decides to end things or just wants to be friends?

Example: A couple a months ago I got the LJBF from a girl I was dating for 6 weeks and I told her I completely agreed and had no problem and stopped calling her/texting her for a few weeks and moved on. The times I did text her I would tease her or something. I acted like it didn't phase me basically and I even dated other girls. However I eventually never heard from this girl again so I guess she genuinely didn't care, luckily I moved on anyway.

I was just wondering if the best approach if a girlfriend starts distancing from you is just to let it happen or agree with her? If she wants to end things, just go along with it and say it's fine and you understand and move on. Obviously no contact is a part of this (unless she calls/texts first).

Is this a good approach for a PUA or high value male?

Any thoughts? That's how I've always handled it
Author:  JuanAntonioB [ Mon Jun 04, 2012 6:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Best way to approach being dumped by a girlfriend?
Quote:
I completely agreed and had no problem and stopped calling her/texting her.

The times I did text her I would tease her or something.
no contact means no contact.

anyways the fact that she even says she wants out after 6 weeks is indicative of something wrong earlier than that.

if you play your cards right (which includes screening), the girl will be into you. period.
and it will be up to YOU to decide whether you want to continue dating her or not, and for how long.
Author:  chazman0426 [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 3:58 am ]
Post subject: 
I know but I am wondering how do you handle it if for whatever reason a girl leaves. Do you say "That's fine, good luck and goodbye" or do you show some sort of anger and go no contact?
Author:  league [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 8:00 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
I know but I am wondering how do you handle it if for whatever reason a girl leaves. Do you say "That's fine, good luck and goodbye" or do you show some sort of anger and go no contact?
i do a sort of mixture, 'yeah no problem :-)' then go no contact.

dont show anger because it lowers your value, a girl see's it like why would a high value guy get angry because a girl dumps him, a high value guy would just shrug his shoulders and move on to the next girl, thats the image you want to get in her head
Author:  chazman0426 [ Sun Jun 10, 2012 4:33 pm ]
Post subject: 
Exactly, that's what I thought. Just wanted to confirm. I just wondered if a passive attitude and going no contact would work the best. Because if a women thinks you don't care she may move on anyway.
Page 1 of 1 All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group
http://www.phpbb.com/