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| Author: | Hakuna [ Sun May 20, 2012 2:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Use Secks to read your girlfriend |
For the very reason that women communicate covertly while men overtly, it can become difficult to accurately gauge your girlfriend's emotions. Take shit tests for example, they are not always indicators of blossoming attraction. Your girlfriend may have already lost attraction for you, and the shit test is coming from a place of resentment. Among the variables you should read to get a clear picture of what she's feeling, be exceptionally aware of her SECKSUAL interest. If she’s shit testing you considerably enough, but you guys are banging each other’s brains out every day; the shit tests are not coming from a place of resentment If she’s shit testing you, being whiny, and secks is on the DECLINE, you need more attraction. If the relationship is too lopsided in your favor, she may attempt to rebalance it by holding out on secks. Here you’ll have to be exact in reading her. Does she WANT secks, but is holding out on it in a desperate attempt to make you beg for a pussy handout; or does she NOT want secks, and is holding out on it passively just because she isn’t as interested in you? How passionate is she DURING secks, and how much attention does she pay to your pleasure versus hers. Big indicator: a girl interested will occasionally ask “are you sure it’s good?” when you’re using a condom, a girl not as interested, or only using you for vagina itch care, will only care about her side of the pleasure spectrum. When you first start dating a girl, if you are NOT in the dominant position, you will see much more last minute resistance. LMR occurs when her hamster isn’t sure if the investment in you is worth it, and is absent in the presence of enough game. On occasion you will see LMR when your game is TOO tight (or if you’re playing up c/f too much), in which case she is wondering whether you’ll judge her or split right after. She doesn't want to feel like a slut. Penis in vagina is much more of an accurate measure of a girl’s interest than smileys in texts, phone conversations, and other forms of affection. The reason is simple, the male/female dynamic. Women use secks to get relationships, men use relationships to get secks (at least this is how it’s SUPPOSED to play out). If she is NOT putting out, she is subconsciously assuming she can get enough affection from you while saving her intimacy for a more worthy man. As a corollary to this assumption, remember that women assume a man who has ENOUGH reproductive value for them to sleep with, would not give them enough attention WITHOUT secks because he has too many other options and/or obligations. So if you allow her smileys to "suffice" as affection and are okay with not owning her pussy, she subconsciously assumes that she can do better than you. If you’re having mind blowing secks consistently and her attraction for you is obviously high, yet she is shit testing you A LOT, especially around other people, you might be facing a rare aggressive form of shit testing that occurs when a woman feels her secksual market value has been threatened. If a girl is in a relationship with a guy and everyone PERCEIVES him to have much more value than her, she will try and put him down, especially in front of other people, to equalize her value with his. DO NOT “call her out” on said shit tests, that only signals to her that she was able to get an emotional reaction out of you, which implicates LOWER value on your part because only if the both of you were on EQUAL footing in the first place would she be able to affect you in a visible way. Focus on secks over PERIODS, not short bursts of affection unless they result from ATTRACTION. To explain, sometimes your girlfriend will have secks with you, even good secks, after you’ve FAILED a shit test or while she’s drunk. You may have apologized and told her how much you loved her, and she may have rewarded you with a blow-job. But if you allow secks to subsist on “good behavior,” you’re fucked. Be careful so as not to encourage a reward dynamic when it comes to secks. You guys have secks because both of you want to have secks. A secks/reward system is essentially the same thing as a push/pull system in game; just inverted in favor of the girl. Rather than you going no contact to soft next her; she goes no secks to soft next you. What turns her on? Try and find correlations between how secksually interested she is and the circumstances you're under. If you think she’s cheating on you, check to see if she wants to have secks with you while she’s ovulating. Seriously. While a girl is ovulating, she is wired to want secks with whoever her hypergamous nature deems as the most superior partner, and reject secks with everyone else for paternal guarantee. A measure of her secksual interest is just as valuable as a lie detector test, and far less expensive. |
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| Author: | ibhaZaa [ Tue May 22, 2012 3:02 pm ] |
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excellent post, thank you for writing it! i have a question: what do you do when your GF doesn't wanna have sex with you? i was in a realationship for 4 years and my GF never said no until about 1,5 yr mark. than sex was getting less and less frequent and went down to 1/week at 3 yr mark. how do you stop this from happening? you said one has to be NOT OK with that and show it. only fix attraction? with my current GF of 6 months, she never said no, in fact she wants is all the time, everywhere. i just wanna be prepared for the time when she says no for the 1st, 2dn time, etc. |
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| Author: | Snake Doctor [ Tue May 22, 2012 4:06 pm ] |
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Hakuna wrote a post you can look for it... But the generaly ideia behind is your girlfriend needs to be stressed out. Meaning she needs to feel that are other girls in the same venue wanting to fuck the brains out of you... |
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| Author: | JuanAntonioB [ Wed May 23, 2012 10:23 pm ] |
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yo Hakuna, ridiculously awesome post as usual. |
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| Author: | mattyman [ Fri May 25, 2012 2:06 am ] |
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amazing stuff! |
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| Author: | Vine Whip [ Wed May 30, 2012 11:36 pm ] |
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Quote: yo Hakuna,
ridiculously awesome post as usual. Man no kidding, what a great message! Thanks! |
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| Author: | SirJoseppi [ Fri Aug 17, 2012 5:55 pm ] |
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Awesome post. I have a couple questions though in relation to this. I have sex with my GF of 8 months about 2-3 times a week. It is usually awesome. One change I've noticed though over the past couple months is that she is very reluctant to be on top. Early on, she used to be on top all the time. Like a lot of girls, she would arch her back and would cum very quickly and intensely from this. However these days she rarely gets on top. The main way she cums is a form of doggy, but she is laying on her stomach instead, and is touching herself while I'm behind her doing my thing. She doesn't cum nearly as big or as intense from this as she does while on top however. And obviously I would rather make her cum on my own without her having to touch herself like she does when she is laying on her stomach.. I've asked her about this briefly and the only answer she has really given me is an "I don't know" sort of thing as to why she doesn't want to be on top. Obviously there is a reason but she isn't telling me. Any ideas? I love her being on top, feels awesome, and she has a huge rack. Gets old suggesting that she be on top however and her always saying no. I'm gonna stop asking. Also, she is getting more reluctant to give head. I always have to be the one to initiate/bring it up...she never does on her own. I've asked her about this too and she told me "I thought you like being dominant?" which I do, but is still a bit of a cop out answer I think. I told her yes I do, but it would still be really hot if she were to initiate it first once in a while. Let me know if I'm reading too much into this...just wanted to get some input. Thanks! |
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| Author: | SirJoseppi [ Sun Aug 19, 2012 3:25 pm ] |
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Anyone? Muchas gracias. |
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| Author: | yellowcab [ Sun Aug 19, 2012 6:19 pm ] |
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Quote: Anyone?
Dude....Muchas gracias. Next time you have sex with her. Grab her by the neck, throw her on the bed, destroy her panties, wip out ur cock, grab the back of her hair and dont let go, slap her in the face with ur cock... then push her face into the bed, and fuck her from behind ( no forplay what so ever, make her feel ur cock entering ) call her a slut and a whore. Come on her back or on her face. Get up, put ur clothes on, and leave the room. Don't say a word. Letting a girl be on top all the time is bad mate. She's constantly dominating you in that position. Fix it by treating her like a fking whore next time u fuck her. Ur welcome. YC |
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| Author: | SirJoseppi [ Sun Aug 19, 2012 7:06 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Anyone?
Dude....Muchas gracias. Next time you have sex with her. Grab her by the neck, throw her on the bed, destroy her panties, wip out ur cock, grab the back of her hair and dont let go, slap her in the face with ur cock... then push her face into the bed, and fuck her from behind ( no forplay what so ever, make her feel ur cock entering ) call her a slut and a whore. Come on her back or on her face. Get up, put ur clothes on, and leave the room. Don't say a word. Letting a girl be on top all the time is bad mate. She's constantly dominating you in that position. Fix it by treating her like a fking whore next time u fuck her. Ur welcome. YC |
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