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| Author: | astartes2 [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 12:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need advice with my girl |
My girl and I broke up last may and didnt get back together officially till last september. so we were broken up for 3 months. while we were broken up we talked to other people. One person she talked to was someone she banged prior to us even meeting. she always had a thing for him, but claims that I am all she wants now. I don't know if I will ever believe that. Anyways this person, she use to work with, and she is going to a past employee get together this sunday, (he is going to be there). I am not invited she says quote "you probably wouldn't have a good time and no one is bringing their other halfs" and honestly if I did go I would probably ruin the night. my question is what do I say, and what do I do. Any tricks to getting this shit off my mind. I fucking can't stand being put in these situations |
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| Author: | Takeher [ Tue Feb 14, 2012 3:44 am ] |
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I'm also in difficult situations like this. And what I'm doing is really helping me now. Its all about communication bro. If you are not comfortable with her going to that thing then tell her that. Tell her you really don't fully trust her right now because of previous things that happened with that dude. If you did trust her then you wouldn't even be worrying about this stuff. that dude could try a bunch of stuff, but in the end when it comes to a point to escalate, it takes TWO. And if she truly meant what she said to you, and she had already earned your trust, then you can just trust her to go and to keep her guard up. BUT the whole thing saying that you would be bored and no one is bringing their other half's really seems like one to many excuses to get you not to go. If this girl really likes you then she wouldn't care who other people are bringing. she would want to have you there any other way and present you to her friends and be happy to have you. Its all about how you feel. if you feel you trust her then trust her and if you don't then talk to her about it and tell her to try to respect your feelings and to please not go because its not something your ready for and that in time you will trust her more and feel more comfortable but right now its not comfortable for you. In a relationship both people have to be ready to respect each others feelings and keep balance. If you do tell her not to go make sure you dont do it in a commanding way like you just put a limit or chain on her. just ask her nicely and show her you have good reasons for feeling this way. good luck. |
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