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Author:  alexle92 [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 4:15 am ]
Post subject:  Bi-Polar or Fed Up?
My girlfriend and I hit it up pretty fast (mistake). We have been dating for a year and I believe we are past our "honeymoon phase." I basically stayed at her place 3-4 times a week after the first couple months of dating. Lately, GF has not been herself, as if the relationship isn't sparking anymore. She has trust issues with me. As of late, she's been very moody, definitely not the girl I started dating. She dumped me via text today because I borrowed money from her ($20) without asking her which lead to an accusation that I had stolen a higher sum of money ($75) from her wallet, which I didn't. A lot has been leading up to this (convos with me and other chicks on FB (nothing sexual) to occasionally smoking marijuana, which she hates). She cut ties with me before, but not after a couple days we're back in bed together.

I am a very well off man, drive a nice car, take her out to nice restaurants 2-3x a week, giving her what I would want if I were a woman. I love this girl, but her moodiness and

What can I do to:
1)Rekindle relationship
2)Regain trust

Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Author:  PUA-Paris [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 8:13 am ]
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Why do you guys have trust issues? Quit marijuana though as a starter
Author:  hey_lover [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 12:30 pm ]
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What kind of person dumps someone via text? Seriously, that is sickening. That's something Mario Balotelli would do, and has actually done, and been rightfully chastised for. You were with her for a year, and she dumped you over a text. What a little girl.
Author:  alexle92 [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 7:06 pm ]
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Why do you guys have trust issues? Quit marijuana though as a starter
I have quit. Strange thing is, early in the dating stage, she'd step out of her comfort zone and even smoke with me. Now that are more settled in, it seems like she has stepped her foot back into her comfort zone.
Author:  atom [ Sun Jan 29, 2012 1:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bi-Polar or Fed Up?
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I am a very well off man, drive a nice car, take her out to nice restaurants 2-3x a week, giving her what I would want if I were a woman. I love this girl, but her moodiness and

What can I do to:
1)Rekindle relationship
2)Regain trust

Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Sounds like she may have already cheated on you, girls will do this wait for a guy to do something miniscule then blow it hugely out of proporition in order to justify dumping. Especially given the trust issues in the relationship...

If it wasn't for your status I'd say maybe she was worried you were addicted and needing money to fuel your addiction. But that wouldn't be the case as you are well off.
Author:  alexle92 [ Sun Jan 29, 2012 4:23 am ]
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I know she hasn't cheated. She is loyal. We spend way too much time together and now we are seeing the consequences. She gets mad at every little thing. But yet, I still love her.
Author:  Email Address [ Mon Jan 30, 2012 3:03 pm ]
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She's probably not bipolar, that only comes from deep childhood trauma...like sexual in nature.

But her spirit may be very wounded nonetheless. Ask her how she felt when she thought you had ripped her off. If she can/will identify the negative emotion, ask 'when was the very first time you ever felt _____________ (her emotion)?'

If she'll try to go with you there, she still trusts you, but you better be able to handle helping her heal. It's going to take a while and she has to be willing.

Good luck, friend. :(
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