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Author:  matt101 [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 11:09 pm ]
Post subject:  crazy situation, help!!
ok so i think i already know the answers, but i just need some professionals liek yourselves to help me!:)
So i'd been with my girlfriend for about 5 months, and we'd had one of the best relationships i've had to date. crazy sex, crazy common interests.
After the first few weeks, she got drunk and kissed a guy at a party, i got pretty ****ing angry as you do. We went on a break, i did my own thing and naturally froze her out, not because i was gaming her, but because that's what i've always done when a girl is getting too ahead of herself.
It worked after a week or so. She told me she was devastated and had felt sick ever since. We got back together and everything was amazing.

My biggest problem came about a week ago. She had been on a holiday with her family, and had been texting me every day, saying she couldn't wait to come back and see me, and missed me, and was stressing that i would move on while she was gone. At this point i was pretty sure that i was being a perfect Alpha :D
But when she got home, i found out that she has a major problem with texting other guys to the point that she would flirt heavily, and tease them about coming to her house to fuck.
When i confronted her, she burst into tears saying that it was all a game, that she has a problem with needing to know that other guys would still want her even in a relationship. I dont know what to do? I know she never actually cheated, but i still I told her that i don't deserve that disrespect, and if we were to stay together, things have to change immediately. We both know that i wouldn't have a problem finding new girls to see, but i really don't want to let this one go.. if i can help it.

Is it normal or accepted for girls to flirt to this extent with other guys while in a relationship? Help please!!
Author:  Snake Doctor [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 11:34 pm ]
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Kissing no, its not acceptable on my book. And this is cheating... in my opinion

Flirting with other guys, oh well its human nature.

Teasing them heavily to fuck, you must be joking.

This girl is a cheater, if you accept her back, believe me in one month you will ear that she fucked and sucked other guys.

Back away from this girl now.
Author:  matt101 [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 12:38 am ]
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thanks man, think i just needed someone else to tell me what i knew
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 12:51 am ]
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um no.

it's not cool for your girlfriend to be texting other guys about coming to her house and fucking her.

that is the behavior of a slut.

don't next her.

FB'ify her.

if you continue to consider this girl as "relationship" material, she will cause you nothing but pain and disrespect.
Author:  Richard Pryor [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 1:15 am ]
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+1

ouch.
Author:  linebacker30 [ Tue Nov 15, 2011 12:35 pm ]
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I wouldn't like that at all
Author:  Jacob292 [ Tue Nov 15, 2011 5:47 pm ]
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FB'ify her.

if you continue to consider this girl as "relationship" material, she will cause you nothing but pain and disrespect.
I wouldn't even make her FB.

The main problem is that they have been in a relationship, so any time soon, one of the two will feel Oneitis for the other, even if they are supposed to be only FBs.

Most probably, if that slut, ugh, girl (typo!) goes around heavily flirting with random dudes and makes out with another guy when drunk (that the only part of the story you know), she's a dangerous one. And since you'll be the one going back to her, you'll most probably loose your alpha "status", become needy, and feel the oneitis syndrome anytime soon if you continue to even talk to her.
Author:  Jacob292 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 4:58 pm ]
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Well he specifically said he can get other girls, so he would not become the needy individual if he talks/games other girls and knows that he has the ability to get another one if needed. I would suggest the FB status as well but since you have an interest in her, let her know that if you see a change and she stops texting those other guys and shows true commitment to you then you will allow you guys to be together again.
I didn't see where he wrote that he could get other girls. If he can, it's all good for him. In that case, indeed, FB-ing her is a good solution.

Good tips for training that girl to be a FB without being needy.
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