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Author:  SidTine [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 12:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Made a big mistake?
I`ve been out with this girl, who I know for about half a year.. And it was really nice and all that, but it`s kind a weird situation bcs we know each other for so long, and from the beginning there was smth between us, but we still aren`t together (both of us are "guilty" for that).. And this evening when we were out, her best friend and my best friend also met each other, and they hooked up the same evening. They kissed at the end, and I didn`t kiss "my girl" bcs.. i don`t know why, i`m stupid.. :D
And before the goodbye I have her a bracelet with my name on it..
The same night she send me a text message, as i asked her, but only a polite Good Night..Otherwise we send a nicer "good night"..Then the other day we saw each other, it was so so, smth was not alright, but still ok.. Then we went on a drink and asked her if she was wearing it, and she said no and then i told her to return it to me (i know, a STUPID thing to do, but i don`t know what was i thinking).. And after that things got really bad, she was kind a avoiding me and all that..
What`s the matter? The bracelet, the fact that her and mine best friend got together so quickly and we`ve been on to that for half a year or bcs i didn`t kiss her when i had the chance?
Author:  Sparroww [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 12:50 pm ]
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Man up and go for it. Stop being scared and go after her. You haven't kissed her in that long because you haven't kissed her in that long. Just do it. Stop worrying about rejection and consequences.
Author:  SidTine [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 1:24 pm ]
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Well yeah, that`s true.. But it`s kind a hard now, bcs she˙s acting like that. That happened about 1-2 weeks ago. I stopped talking to her since then.. Suggestions? I want to end this in a proper manner if you know what i mean- with a kiss and if she rejects me, move forward..
Author:  Sparroww [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 1:36 pm ]
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Well, in situations where things go wrong and you've been out of contact for a while, I would say re-initiate and act like everything is perfectly fine. Nothing went wrong, you're still best buds.
Escalate, go for the k-close, if she turns her head just chuckle a little bit and kiss her cheek and neck. And continue on like she didn't reject you.

However, if you can't re-initiate, move on. Don't get hung up on one girl when there's tons more out there just as pretty, interesting and fun as the last.
Author:  SidTine [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 2:30 pm ]
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However, if you can't re-initiate, move on. Don't get hung up on one girl when there's tons more out there just as pretty, interesting and fun as the last.
Couldn`t agree more :))
Just one more advice please.. I`m in the last year of high-school. We see each other every day in school +her best friend is dating my best friend. So it`s a kind of a weird situation.. How do I act in school? Do I talk to her or not? And for the KC. Do I wait for some occasion when she will go out with her friends and we will go there then, or I ask her out? She˙s very shy and never really went on a date in the evening so.. What do you suggest?
Author:  Sparroww [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 2:42 pm ]
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However, if you can't re-initiate, move on. Don't get hung up on one girl when there's tons more out there just as pretty, interesting and fun as the last.
Couldn`t agree more :))
Just one more advice please.. I`m in the last year of high-school. We see each other every day in school +her best friend is dating my best friend. So it`s a kind of a weird situation.. How do I act in school? Do I talk to her or not? And for the KC. Do I wait for some occasion when she will go out with her friends and we will go there then, or I ask her out? She˙s very shy and never really went on a date in the evening so.. What do you suggest?
Like I said, act like nothing went wrong. So however you used to act around her at school, do it again.
As for the close, any time you can isolate her go for it. It's all your choice, you could ask her out, you could be hanging out somewhere and go for it. It's your preference.
Author:  SidTine [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 3:07 pm ]
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Tnx :) We`ll see how I`ll decide.. I`m not really interested in her so much anymore and some other girl is chasing me right now.. so.. :)
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