makes me wana fall in love n break up.. good post
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| Author: | axtion [ Fri Oct 07, 2011 11:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How To Get Over Your Ex That You Loved |
Getting over an ex-girlfriend SUCKS. Especially one that you loved. It could be one of the hardest things in the world. But there are a few things to get through the pain and to become happier then you have. I have done it a few times and I know when the break up first happens it can feel like the end of the world. Just remember it’s not and follow the steps below and before you know it you will be back on your feet. 1. Accept that the relationship is over. Whether you broke up with her or she broke up with you, it’s time to realize that it is over. Stop trying to come up with ways to make it work out. Odds are the break up is for a valid reason and it is time to move on. 2. Make a list of all the reasons you are not right for each other and why it would never work out in the long run anyway. Then make another list of the awesome things you are now able to do that you couldn't before with a girlfriend. Like have 3 ways, hit on every girl that walks, go on crazy spring break trips with your friends, don't have to compromise on stupid things, all the time you will have to do thing you like, the list goes on and on. 3. Exercise - a lot. When a break up happens, there are a lot of emotions involved. This is a great time to put those emotions to good use. Get in better shape, burn off that stress, build more energy, sleep better, be healthier, and get an accomplished attitude. 4. You can't change the past. Everything in the past cannot be changed. Accept that it happened and don't beat yourself up over it. You did what you thought was right at the time. There was/is no possible way to know the future. Look at it like this – You are here right now. Figure out where you want to be. Then make a plan to get to where you want to be in the future. 5. Stop looking at them. It’s time to get rid of all the pictures and all the objects that make you think of your ex. If there are items of value, sell them. By holding on to pictures and objects, you are sub consciously holding on to her. By getting rid of it all you are ready to move on and find someone new. Hide their posts on Facebook and STOP going to their profile. Remove them from your life completely. 6. "But she was the one for me and she was so special and there was no one like her!" First off she was not the one for you that is why you are not together. I am sure she was special that is why you allowed her into your life, but so is everyone else is in their own way. It’s time to find someone else special. Once you accept its time to move on, you will see that there are people out there that you can have fun with, just as much or more. 7. HOPE - There is always a bar somewhere with tons of single girls in it. Remember there is always hope. There will always be tons girls out there looking for single guys. It’s time to get out there and have some fun. 8. Do fun things. It’s time to fill the void and go out and do fun things. Hang out with friends, go see a comedian, skydive, ride a dirt bike, play some sports, anything that will get you in the ‘moment’ and out of your head. Think of fun things you like to do and GO DO THEM. 9. Get your life in high gear. There a few books that I suggest reading to give your life a purpose. 4 Hour Work Week - Tim Ferriss, Never Eat Alone - Keith Ferrazzi, Think and Grow Rick - Napoleon Hill, How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie. I highly suggest these books. 10. Get yourself some new bling. Get a new watch, phone, clothes, earring, if you have enough money, a cool car. Get something cool that like to look at and are proud to own. Finally, I just want to say I know it sucks. I've been there. It does take some time to totally get over her, but make a solid effort to move on, find happiness in your life and enjoy it. There is hope and long term you will be better off. Good luck, have fun, and think of all the hot girls hot there that are waiting to talk to you. |
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| Author: | Sidnne [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 1:27 am ] |
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Good post. This should be stickied. I would like to add: 11. Control your thoughts. Every time you catch yourself thinking about her, stop that thought and think about some of the negatives things about her instead, or about something completely unrelated to her. |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 1:34 am ] |
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12. realize that women are two dimensional and do not feel "love" as perceived by men. they only feel attraction. |
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| Author: | XxBAMFxX [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 6:22 pm ] |
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Quote: 12. realize that women are two dimensional and do not feel "love" as perceived by men. they only feel attraction.
What do you mean by this?
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| Author: | axtion [ Sun Oct 09, 2011 4:06 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: 12. realize that women are two dimensional and do not feel "love" as perceived by men. they only feel attraction.
What do you mean by this? |
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| Author: | Richard Pryor [ Wed Oct 12, 2011 2:59 am ] |
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Quote: What i believe Mack is saying is that while a girl says she loves you at one point, she can fall out of love if you no longer attract her on a consistant basis. |
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| Author: | meganaxx [ Wed Nov 02, 2011 10:06 pm ] |
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i like this post, very positive...a lot of people need to read this and accept this..including myself |
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| Author: | octopus [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 5:37 pm ] |
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Some really good suggestions. Me and my gf split up about 2 months ago and i would def consider breaking all contact. Ive deleted all her numbers, blocked her on fb and ive even taken myself off fb as i dont find any use for it. All the pics and stuff that reminds me of her is under my bed so i will never look at them. Also like the op already mentioned try and think of some negative things about her. For example my gf was frigid and didnt like sex as much as me which used to make me feel like shit when she wouldn't have sex with me but would just go to sleep! Time is a healer and eventually u will be over her! |
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| Author: | F8L [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 9:33 pm ] |
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makes me wana fall in love n break up.. good post
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| Author: | Jacob292 [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 10:17 pm ] |
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Thanks for the good post. I'm definitely bookmarking this. The list of things I dislike about my ex is pretty damn long, but until now, for some reason, I kept feeling the love when we talked over the phone or SPAM (she moved far away). They are all bitches, especially the ones like my ex who says she still loved me when, at the same time, she was getting stuffed by another guy. F*cking bitch! |
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| Author: | matt101 [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 12:06 am ] |
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i agree with all of this, but in my opinion, feeling like misery and death after something like this is exactly what you should be feeling. Let it all out, all of it. Once you've poured your heart out, you will realise the only way left to go, is up 
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| Author: | Kasango [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 6:18 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote: 12. realize that women are two dimensional and do not feel "love" as perceived by men. they only feel attraction.
What do you mean by this? |
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| Author: | liam79 [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 6:59 pm ] |
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Awesome post, I truly agree with this. Too many guys sit and mop around thinking and plotting how to get her back without improving themselves first. |
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| Author: | deluosuo [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 9:31 pm ] |
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Damn, thank god someone bumped this. I broke up a month ago... and I've been resisting as hard as I could not to succumb. I've been in thin ice ice all this month. I mean, I did work a lot on my own stuff, trained a lot too but still... One month in the limit of "exploding" emotionally. Today I was feeling more and more shit, almost unbearable， I was finally going to explode... wanting to write to her, doing the ultra wuss/afc/chump move. Thank GOD I saw this post. It's 5am, I'll go to sleep, and start a new day tomorrow feeling awesome. |
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| Author: | HandBreaker [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 9:58 pm ] |
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iv been there a month ago..times cures everything it gives you motivation to improve and show what she's been missing! and the stuff said here about love and attraction in girls is pretty damn right 
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