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| Author: | rushdown23 [ Mon Dec 28, 2009 5:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Favorite Seduction Question |
For those familiar with Ross Jeffries's "Seduction Questions", what is your favorite one?? The one I've been using a lot is: "If you could go anywhere, without worrying about time or money, where would you like to go the most?" I like that one because I use it almost every time. |
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| Author: | rushdown23 [ Sun Jan 31, 2010 5:04 pm ] |
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I'm guessing nobody knows what these seduction questions are and that's why I've gotten no responses. Here they are in Ross Jeffries's own words: Six Seduction Questions Hey Bros, Just playing around with seduction questions. What think ye of these? RJ 1. If you could name 3 things about yourself that are uniquely attractive...that have nothing to do with your physical appearance, what would you say they would be? Purpose: shows you are screening her. (Note, I would not open the conversation with this. I would do a few minutes of other chit-chat first. And I would soften it by saying, "You seem like a person with some dimension to her..who knows herself..IF you could name 3 things....) Secondary purpose: sets up you naming 3 things YOU find attractive in women: A. a sense of humor B. a sense of adventure; it's great to enjoy what you already know, but you also have to have that ability...to find...and follow...your desire...to move beyond what you already know...move in a new direction(nude erection)..you know you want to take a nd finally, Debby: C. a great imagination; it's ok to be inside your box..but to think outside your box..to be able to imagine something really amazing..something bigger than you've been used to....thinking....find the place where you don't care what your friends would think because maybe you'd just keep this...for you....that's really amazing. Third purpose: move to demo Like, I was learning in this seminar about a really cool way to visualize: Go to blammo Or I learned this really cool visualization game called the Cube Or It's like this question I heard at a party: if you could go somewhere where no one knew who you were..and nothing you did there would ever get back to anyone..what kinds of experiences do you imagine you'd like to have...whatkind of sensations would you want to feel..with what kind of person would you like to experience this...now...with me..I find..when you LET THAT QUESTION roll around inside you're MINE......really see the images..keep feeling the feelings...you realize you really can PUT YOUR FINGER ON THE SOURCE OF SOME EXCITEMENT(anchor with a finger touch) Seduction Question #2: When you really want to cut loose..escape..indulge..what kind of things do you imagine doing..and what kind of things do you imagine doing but haven't yet let yourself try? Purpose:(anchor her responses, ask questions to deepen responses, incorporate her responses, sets up theme of indulgence, adventure, escape, screens for sense of adventure and openness to strong responding) Secondary Purpose:(allows you to move into theme of learning about people by learning where they find their sense of indulgence and escape) Possible transitions: blow job pattern; two kinds of indulgence: compulsion and anticipation Other possible transitions: theme of different places in the mind: "It's like I was reading about how there are really different places in the mind. The place where you keep your check list..thethings you have to get done. Then there's the social approval layer of the mind where you have all the messages about who you should be, what you should do, who you should want, etc. etc... There's the third level: where you keep all the roles and rules; it's the illusion of self and illusion of choice where you are Debby the daughter, Debby the friend, Debby the girlfriend,e tc. But then, there's the fourth level..and all that is here..is what pleases YOU most..what would touch YOU most..in all the ways YOU WANT TO BE TOUCHED....because you know you will NOT be judged...because you feel SO FREE...SO EXCITED..and also so ACCEPTED AND SAFE..that what YOU WANT CUMS RIGHT TO THE FORE...PLAY..FUN...BLISS.it's all here for you..NOW..with ME..." Third Seduction Question: Do you think men understand women? Purpose: sets up question of what women really respond to/want as a means of opening these responses in her. Possible places to go: incredible connection/ Gemini Pattern/different ways women can experience an attraction/love vs attraction(for men, they decide right away, but for women, they have feelings in the present moment, but also..afterwards..when you go home..and think about this person) Secondary places to go: It's like this poem:(go into poem) Other places to go: Men have one compartment in their mind: sex. Women have different places in their mind(see second question) Variation of this whole thing: as a set up, say "I don't know if men understand women, but I can explain the entire psychology of women to men in 3 jokes. Then go to my 3 joke stack which I wrote about last week. From there you can go to, "Actually, I have a friend who claims to understand women. He says(go to incredible connection/Gemini Pattern/different ways women experience attraction/love vs attraction etc) Fourth Seduction Question: If you could go somewhere, where money and time were no object, where would you go..and what do you think you'd enjoy the most? Purpose: tests their ability to visualize, allows you to open up part of mind linked to escape and adventure, sets up more riske' question, tests response and comfort BEFORE moving into more riske question Possible places to go: From there, go to the question about, "If you could go somewhere where no one knew who you were..and nothing you did would get back to anyone who DID know you..what kinds of experiences would you like to have..with what kinds of sensations would you feel....now...with what kind of person would you like to experience this?" From there: different places in the mind, blow job pattern, etc. Fifth Seduction question: When you were a little girl, what was their some favorite kind of candy that you really liked? Purpose: gets some age regression. Opens up topic of treating yourself, indulgences. Follow up patter: You see, I think so many of the pleasures we have as adults are actually more influenced by what we craved as kids than most might think.. Like, yesterday I saw something so fascinating at the Starbucks. I watched this mother with her 3 year old kid..and she had a cookie for the kid..and the kid was so excited waiting for the cookie from her Mom..and then...as her Mom handed it to her...and she reached out for it....her face lit up..and she took that first bite...and just went "mmmmmmmmm" But a few minutes later I watched this business man in his 50's come charging in with his briefcase, yelling into his cell phone head-set..but when he got HIS cookie, he took a bite..and his face changed..he smiled like that little kid..and just...said.."mmmmmmm" So interesting how...our child like responses sounds....get moved...into...our ADULT PLEASURES..our ADULT DESIRES... (You guys have to imagine how I would be anchoring this with objects on the table or bar counter: get the Essential Skills Anchoring videos to learn how to do this. Tom, I bet you could see this working! http://www.essential-skills.com) Possible places to go from here: Blow Job pattern. Escape/indulgence/question/ Sixth Seduction question: Have you ever noticed how: A. Time seems to pass differently according the mood you are in or the emotion you are experiencing? Possible places to go: time/timing pattern, Peak Experiences, incredible connection B. When you really, really dig someone..someone who makes you feel those butterflies..that CLICK...right...there...that you tend to look at them through those feelings so anything they do seems appealing? C. Some people just seem to have an electricity about them? Like , I have this friend, Laura, and she isn't the prettiest of girls, but she can walk into a room...with women way better looking..and she just turns every head..just takes over the room..with something.....totally....electrical. And it made me think: what is it about certain people...that just...totally...fascinates...just makes us feel, when we are around them...that times slows down...our focus narrows..and everything becomes this face....this face....this moment you are sharing? (could go to fascination poem from this etc etc etc) |
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| Author: | rushdown23 [ Sun Jan 31, 2010 5:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Why even use seduction questions???? |
1. Asking questions that cause the girl to go inside and access processes is one of the 4 doorways into her mind according to the Basic Home Study Course. (The other 3 doorways are getting her visualizing, body sensations, and feeling an incredible connection) 2. These are A LOT easier to use than memorized patterns. 3. You can acquire her trance words and body anchors with them and them mirror them back. |
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