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How to make gf more comfortable with sex?
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Author:  bensims3251 [ Mon Mar 09, 2015 11:13 pm ]
Post subject:  How to make gf more comfortable with sex?

Hey guys. I'm really interested in NLP and psychology, and I'm just getting into it. I bought an Introducing NLP an have been making my way through it. I wanted to see if NLP could help me out with my gf. So we're both 18, been dating for a month and a half, and she has very limited sexual experience. Outside of me, she's kissed one or maybe two guys total. I'm the first guy she's gone further than kissing with. She gave me one hand job a month ago, but now she says she is uncomfortable with sex and thinks we are going too fast. Are there any NLP tactics I could use to get her more comfortable with it?

Author:  Jonx1000 [ Wed Mar 11, 2015 5:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to make gf more comfortable with sex?

You can let her know its natural but don't push it either just let her know that you want to do it with her when she feels comfortable and make her seem like the one pushing for it.

I wish I could explain it better, a virgin slayer would be able to give better advice.

Author:  Dr. Spargenator [ Thu Mar 12, 2015 4:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to make gf more comfortable with sex?

Well in most cases. Nlp is just a guided visualization through an internal process to get to an emotional state. The entire visualization needs to be indirect. So just start a visualization to get her into a state of comfort around you. You can make it metaphorical, so that the mind will process that state with YOU. What I mean is to say something like, maybe you were talking with him, and then you started to really open up. The mind will find that parallel with her talking to you and interpret it as a metaphor. You don't even need to put emphasis on it. The unconcious will be kind of sensitive to it.
Anyway, that will make sure she associates the state with you.

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