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hey guys
quick video here on what to text the girl that stands you up!
its a great video if your in the moment right now and dont know what to say.
maybe this video can help salvage your date
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here is a link if the embedded one doesnt work
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgdqKnRS6oA
how often do you get flaked on? it happens sooner or later no matter how tight your game is
Go on one of my choosing, of the two other dates that I was going to stand up, already set up in place 15 minutes and 30 mins later than date number one........
With all do respect I don't believe this is the best mindset to approach the game with, I've watched pickup evolve and change , I read my first seduction book at the age of 15(The game & science of seduction)and have been doing pickup ever since now 26 yrs old.
To me this has always been about brotherhood and helping others like it was when pick up first started.(not all about money and business) so I will put in my perspective on how the game should be played and the mentality.
1. Guys with tight game aren't messaging girls that stood them up, they are moving on to the next within minutes and getting another date or straight up hook-up.
2. Why would you waste your time messaging back a person that just stood you up degrading yourself. Then trying to salvage a little date from them like your a mouse waiting for them to drop a little crumbs of cheese so you don't starve common.
3. Everyone flakes it happens , life happens all good no biggie. but If they really gave a fuck about you and since they are the one standing you up dont you think they would be texting you calling you back apologizing and being the one setting up the date and trying to salvage the date with you for them selves since they are the one that fucked up.
CONCLUSION VALUE MINDSET
1.Don't have a scarcity mindset there are plenty of women in the world, go out and find them. instead of wasting time on women who dont appreciate you, you can go find women that love your company and spending time with you.
2.Have a value mindset, your valuable, you have something to offer, your not like 99% of guys saying the same old lines doing the same old things trying to get girls. Your different you understand principles of pick-up and seduction your a artist you have more to offer a women. You have skills you have practiced and been honing to have better experiences with women, women appreciate you because you give them better experiences ,conversation, stimulation, excitement, fun, happiness, this is what its all about.
3.Handle business like a man, put all those natural afc feelings to the side when the arise, and understand whats possible multiple HB's in your bed in one night, the HB of your dream, accumulate, build, and sharpen your skills so you have more value and more to offer you will know your worth and never settle for less.
In memory of pua Spade
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