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Author:  northernthunder [ Mon Aug 08, 2011 3:40 pm ]
Post subject:  New to PUA - with different intentions than most

Hello everybody,

What I am here for more likely than not differs greatly from what you are all here for. I am 24 years old, but never into the nightclub scene and although in my early teens I loved to sleep with lots of girls, I'm no longer into that either.

I married a beautiful girl when I was 19 and have three children so far. I have inherited money and also run two family businesses, but I live cheaply and frugally and have zero interest in using my money for fun or leisure. I don't have HUGE amounts of money where I could afford to pick up girls and give them lives of luxury, but I can pay the living expenses of a great many people.

I have taken up the idea of having as many children as possible.

With that end in mind I am taking up some of your techniques, not for having casual one night stands or just mindlessly sleeping with women, but gaining mistresses in a more than sexual way. I don't care about just 'scoring' or getting off.

When it comes to polygamy, the only women I have ever found who have been remotely open to it are either fundamentalist christians or weird bisexual fetishists. I can't deal with either.

Additionally, I am only interested in women with naturally light eyes and hair (redheads or blondes), which makes it incredibly more difficult, as the vast majority of the population is brunette. Obviously she also has to be young, of childbearing age.

As a teen, I never had a problem with women. Yet it seems an enormous task to persuade a woman to live the life that I want. My wife is fine with it, but then we have known each other since she was very young and I have had years to persuade her to adopt my ideology.

What I want is a mistress, preferably to live with my family and I, who is straight (i.e. not a bisexual who sees this type of arrangement as a sexual free-for-all or a game) and will become willing to shun birth control and have as many children as can be naturally had.

It seems difficult to persuade the modern female into such a thing, without years and years of time to change her general mindset. How do I even introduce the thought to women? I am taking note of the strategies you use on here to pick up women, but ideologically changing their views on life ought to be considered an 'art' as well.

I am very happy in my marriage, I love my wife, and I have an amazing sex life with her. I genuinely want to have a second relationship with a second woman, and also have a happy life with her and treat her well. I don't just want a woman to use for sex or to use like a 'babymaker' and otherwise ignored.

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