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Author:	Gryffyn [ Thu Aug 04, 2011 6:33 pm ]
Post subject:	Gay Guy in Pickup Mecca
Hey Dudes. I'm 31yo gay guy. I live in New York city. I got turned on to the PUA scene when a friend lent me "The Game" by mr. strauss. My boy Carlos is straight and I saw how he used what he learned to meet a lot of really great women. I'm have zero experience in the game and have had some success in my love life but I don't have a lot of gay friends and it's hard to meet guys. since, at first, I'll be going out alone.... I'd love to hear from any Lady PUA's on here, seeing as we're both after men. I'm hoping that I learn from the community how to break out of my shell and meet some great guys. Any thoughts on specific openers for dudes? Any thoughts as a guy, how do you like to be approached? If you've been hit on by a gay dude, what didn't freak you out? Are there approaches to negging a guy that are more effective? Any thoughts would be great.....

Author:	TheNaturalPlayboy [ Thu Aug 04, 2011 6:45 pm ]
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Hey man! welcome to the forum.. just go to the section where you want and in areas where you have trouble..

Author:	Gryffyn [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 12:05 am ]
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Thanks TNP! I'm stoked to be here! and to get the hell out there and just blast down any hesitation i might have.... Headed out tonight for my first time...i'm gonna try using the "My little pony" and the "Girls Masturbate in the Shower" openers.... I think they'll work in a gay-bar setting, i'll let you know how it goes.

Author:	Hotaru [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 2:39 am ]
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haaa welcome! respect for being so open , hope you ll get what you are looking for

Author:	Genuine [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 3:37 am ]
Post subject:	NYC
Welcome- Would have thought NYC would be one of the Mecca's for the gay community... Tampa Fl does have a pretty significant sized one.... What troubles do you have?

Author:	Gryffyn [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 7:59 am ]
Post subject:	First Field Report: Success!!! I guess
First Field Report: Went out tonight for the first time, armed with my openers and what i hope is a readjusted my AA(Awful Anxiety or whatever)factor into an AE(amazing excitement). This seemed to be a serious breakthrough for me. I was instantly more myself when i changed the way i look at that initial nervous energy. By calling it Excitement rather than Anxiety, I was in such a better place, mentally, when I entered the club. Actually, not a lot happened tonight but I had a blast with two complete strangers that were really fun! I got two phone numbers and got 3 free drinks from a bartender! sure, neither guy is fuck-able but they are super nice and I've already got plans to go out clubbing with them on Sunday. Already, instead of just sitting in alone I was able to get out, have a great time and meet some new people. So. What happened. First, I got there too early, 10pm. The place had just opened, only two other customers and the bartender. I opened the bartender with "My Little Ponies" just for practice and got instant rapport, he loved my little ponies, of course he did! I chatted with him, found out stuff about him, he poured me a shot on the house. After a while, I introduced myself to two-set down the bar, Elive and Ringo. So I opened them with a basic hey, hello, how are you and initiated conversation. We chatted for a while and waited for a crowd to show up. Here I ran into my first problem. Because I was having good conversation and didn't want to loose that companionship, that social value, I didn't eject from the two-set...I settled and I stayed with them all night. Even when more people showed up. First night out, I played it cautious, but that's not what a PUA does, is it? but i cut myself some slack, said to myself "Shut up! Have some fun and try some of the shit you read about!!!" So I did. I suggested that we move to a new club. They agreed and off we went. At the new club, I opened a go-go boy, a two set, and some other guy. The Hired Gun: So I'm at the bar next to my friend and the gogo boy is behind me talking to his friend, on a sort of break. Over my shoulder I say, "Aren't you freezing?" HG: Leans in "what" Me: "aren't you freezing, i'm fucking cold and you're wearing like nothing" HG:laughs, leans in over my shoulder to talk in my ear, "i'm hot, i've been dancing" Me: I put my hand on his chest(Kino) like i'm checking for a fever and said "you're not that hot...i'm so cold i could chisel an ice sculpture with my nipples...(he laughed and put his arm around my shoulder) I could chisel you, but out of ice, blah, blah, blah." I kino'd again, running my hand down his stomach HG: so are you a good tipper? Me: Nahhh, I never tip, i'm way to pretty! HG: laughs, "I'm Pedro, what's your name?" Me: Me HG: Nice to meet you. and he went back to work.....so it was my first shot at a hired gun and I thought i'd just give it a shot. I'll never know if I don't ask right? Anyone see where I could have number closed? Or was he just working? Either way, I had fun and I never would have had the guts to talk to a VGL like him before. he was an easy VGL8 finally, the last two-set I opened by asking for a light. He didn't have one and proffered his cigarette to use instead. Me: "oh wow, you're letting me buttfuck you right here on the street, what a slut" guy: laughs and we started to chat. Then i use "my little ponies" then laid a false time constraint, the we chatted about some other shit and I ejected nice a clean. No number close but it was good solid, non-creepy banter with some good looking people. I didn't think i could do this but i did! All in all a great night. And I didn't just drag myself to a club, hover around like a creep and go home alone, Hell No. I went out and met some new people and this is what it's all about, right? thanks all! :D

Author:	Genuine [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 9:04 am ]
Post subject:	Nice
You should post this last post in field reports.... You seem to be doin just fine in field... Your number 1 goal should be goin out and havin fun meeting people... You dont have to talk to too many ppl at first.... Keep learning... Keep practicing... You'll be findin the guys u do wanna be with in no time

Author:	abd [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 1:04 pm ]
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hlo all m new to this field and to this site. Kindly suggest me whom books/products to follow - david deangelo, vin dicarlo, derek rake, mystery or smone else ? Is decibel free pua products good enough ? Are they sufficient for developing basic skills ?

Author:	Gryffyn [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 2:58 pm ]
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Thanks Genuine, I appreciate the love. If you ever come up to the city, let me know! It's a great town and I am excited to keep learning and growing.

Author:	Genuine [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 9:45 pm ]
Post subject:	from up North
Im from Bayonne, NJ originally... Im very familiar with NYC... if I visited there.. Id either be staying in NJ or in Brooklyn with this girl I use to date awhile ago.. I miss NYC.. Even the smell of the subway.. as nasty as that may sound.. it just had that "CITY" smell.. you prob know exactly what I am talkin about though... Im prob actually going to be visiting Brooklyn in a couple mo.. fly into JFK and hoppin on the F train... She knows I teach guys PUA.. She's actually a Dom in NYC whom I trained years ago.. Id def meet up and get a feel for what you are doing in the field and give you some tips... The only thing that is harder with you is.. being a gay male.. Guys dont walk around with a sign on their neck saying "Im Gay" so.. Day Game would be a bit more difficult for you Id imagine.. About the girl.. since I met her in my living room when a friend brought her over.. I didnt go out and pick her up parsay..

Author:	hero99 [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 11:54 am ]
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good luck

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