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| Author: | BrazenRed [ Mon Jul 18, 2011 8:25 pm ] |
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It's true. My brother was lent "The Game" to read because his friend knew it would help him out big time. As it sat there for a week, untouched, I decided to pick it up and give it a go. I was hooked. As a female reading the book, I found this world enticing. I even found myself calling the book my bible. I'm not in the Community now to play guys or call them out on their game. I'm using what I learn to help my male friends and even other girls find mates. I give them pointers from what I've learned and help them open to co-ed sets. I am a bit young to be getting into this business, but I'm driven, and when I find something I like, well I just have to dive right in. I'm immune to criticism so to anything I post on here, feel free to shut me down for being wrong. After all, I am a woman. |
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| Author: | Hank Moody [ Mon Jul 18, 2011 9:01 pm ] |
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hey, there are loads of women on here SPAM, but welcome, u should email one of the mods as there is a section just for women, but its hidden from us guys |
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| Author: | mickeyjackson21 [ Mon Jul 18, 2011 9:13 pm ] |
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Hey. it's such a refreshing change to have a woman write on this forum other than just a bunch of guys. It's great to have an additional newbie female pua teacher and it's a great feeling helping others. I have also found that the skills i have learnt i help girls as well as guys because i know how the minds work of both worlds. in the case of the book called the game. i have not read it personally, but i have skimmed it and heard some conflicting reviews and i found that it is a good source of entertainment but not practical enough compared to other sources. Before i knew about the world of pua i was getting advice from women themselves and to be honest they didnt really help me. they said thing which were not actually satisfying e.g. "Just be yourself" "You're a nice guy". none of this helped me because it was not practical or constructive. men need step by step instructions to get a job done. one thing which i learnt from the great 'female pua trainer' kezia noble, she spelt out the difference between the nice guy, the good guy and the bad guy, which i got a good influence from. so in conclusion i wish you all the best and hope that you can gain alot of information to help as many people as possible. but remember that in order to teach to both sexes, you got to interchange between the 2 different mind sets, they both work very differently. here are some notes on attraction, building rapport, and number closing which i have learnt which might be of interest to you. enjoy. one thing you should know is when to tease (push pull technique, negging etc). they should only be used if ur target is a 7.5 or above (or the girls who think they are 7.5 or above whereas in actual fact they are not). if you were to tease a girl below that rating, you would end of hurting and insulting them. in exclaimer for using negging and teasing is that one should positively validate their target before they negatively validate them. the reason to do it in this way is because one must hook their target in order to get their attention. so after the positive validation (for a set who is +7.5) you negatively validate them (tease, push) in order to put yourself at a higher level than them because at the beginning they are higher than you. the main reason why it is good to use negging is to challenge the ego of a girl of high calibre which is something that a typical afc does not do. and by doing this, it shows that u r a man that has high standards and does not go for just any girl and this will make the girl more interested and it will compel her to work harder to gain your approval because you have showed disinterest in her, told her that she does not fit your standards (negative validation). girls always want the guys that is surrounded by women and guys which are difficult to get, its a challenge for women to go after those guys. building rapport is a very interesting process. in order to build a great emotional connection one must choose to talk about things which have deep emotional content. it does not matter what the girl does or likes, you can connect with her even if you have dissimilar interests. as you know all occupations and hobbies are completely different in their complexity, principles and structure, but there is one thing which all of them have in common/share "EMOTIONS". one must be empathetic and show a girl that u understand why she chose to do that job or hobbie by expressing the emotions that one feels when doing that activity, it shows that you're really trying to get to know her, and she will think "wow this is a great guy to talk to, he's making an effort to understand me, but wait, i dont know anything about him" and this will compel her to ask you questions and u can freely express yourself how ever much u want as long as u express urself passionately and positively. all the men dont do this at all and do not understand how much empathy is a powerful force and openly allow themselves to be perceived to see a girl superficially. you can use the concept of 'rapport' to ur advantage as well. in order for you to build greater rapport with her, get used to asking more open-ended questions e.g. "what have you been up to?" or "What did u get up to today?", my one: "What monkey business did u get up to today?". dont use questions like "wats up hun?", thats a closed-ended question which the girl would simply answer and she wont give u much material to work on in order to reach the hook point. and connect on her answers in a positive way. dont be afraid to tease her as well. dont be afraid to create impact. when telling a girl about a situation that happened to u on that day or in the week, give more details about it, women love details. it is also good to read the local news paper, women are usually very aware what happens in the world, u should as well. u can get her point of view on something in the news (nothing to do with which celebrity had sex with who) e.g. political, environmental, sociological etc and then she would ask you what u think and you can manipulate the conversation which can lead anywhere u want. another way u can have an "endless conversation" is the principle of "Question, statement, Question, statement, Q, S, Q, S etc". so u ask an open question, receive the answer, and then make a statement about the last thing she said in order to ask a deeper question. this process can go round in a circle, it can go on for ages. after you have the girl attracted to you and built rapport, here's how to make sure that you can get a definite number close and afterwards ensure a date in the future. the way to ask a girl out is by 'offering' not asking permission, never ask "Do you want to go out tonight?" or "will you go out with me?" or "so what time are you free tomorrow?". They are all questions which AFCs do. they make a guy sound needy, desperate, dependent on doing something with her. so before offering a date, let her know how busy and sociable you are. girls want guys who are difficult to get. usually in rapport with girls, to make sure she does not flake on u after the first meeting, there's a pua principle called 'seeding'. this is when u in plant an invitation in the conversation with her but u havent actually invited her. for example, you could say that "im thinking of going to this really cool bar sometime next week which i heard about". now usually when a guy mentions to a girl about going to a bar, club or party that u know, the girl will always expects the guy to automatically invite her. but what you would do is just to mention the party or the bar and continue on the conversation. this will catch the girl off guard and the girl will be thinking "hey, this guy is pretty cool (depending on the attraction and rapport), but he has just mentioned this party but why is he not asking me out?". she will think this and will be more compelled and desperate for you to ask her and she realises that she needs to work in order to get the invitation. women want to go to things that are hard to get into, exclusive and even more if they are told they cant go. people always want to go to things when they have been told they cant go. sounds so forbiden and interesting. dont be in the position to be waiting for a girl to call you, women are lazy or busy but definitely unreliable. you make the contact. but when u contact, dont sound like you are too eager to see her, bad sign to show that ur desperate. in between texting a girl, act like u dont care if she ever replies back. i know it sounds crazy, but it does not feel good waiting, checking ur phone every so often seeing if the girl replies. have the frame of mind that u dont care about a reply, then u will feel less anxious, and more focused on ur game. Hope that i have helped. happy gaming dudette |
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| Author: | BrazenRed [ Mon Jul 18, 2011 11:24 pm ] |
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Quote: girls always want the guys that is surrounded by women and guys which are difficult to get, its a challenge for women to go after those guys.
Let me tell you, that's absolutely true. That's why I think I'll be good help to my male friends going out. Bringing a girl to their outings not only adds competition but I feel comfort too. My friends' targets will see that these guys already work well with other women. The targets could also fall back and talk to a fellow female if my amateur friends make an uncomfortable remark, where I follow up with some wing man work to get her focus back to him. Also, I'm not saying I'm basing my whole work on the book; it's just how I discovered the world and its glory. A bit more about me: I said I'm young, a student on my way to becoming a surgeon yet I yearn to enter either as an escort or "exotic dancer". We should keep it at that. I'm reading up on different techniques you guys use because I know I could use them against some unknowing men. I'm also looking into being able to detect liars through body language and speech. I keep myself rounded, well-educated on an array of topics to maintain interesting conversation. I know all the advise you gave me was from a man's perspective, but you'd be surprised how effective it remains the other way around. |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Tue Jul 19, 2011 12:06 am ] |
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I am teaching my girl game, she loves it, and i notice she is more attracted to me i guess a boyfriend with game is attractive... |
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| Author: | BrazenRed [ Tue Jul 19, 2011 12:23 am ] |
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Oh I'd say so. Just because you've won her over initially doesn't mean your game stops there. If you can still throw your charm at her when she doesn't realize it, it'll keep things fresh, like when you first started out. |
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| Author: | Mr. AOTR [ Tue Jul 19, 2011 6:31 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: girls always want the guys that is surrounded by women and guys which are difficult to get, its a challenge for women to go after those guys.
Let me tell you, that's absolutely true. That's why I think I'll be good help to my male friends going out. Bringing a girl to their outings not only adds competition but I feel comfort too. My friends' targets will see that these guys already work well with other women. The targets could also fall back and talk to a fellow female if my amateur friends make an uncomfortable remark, where I follow up with some wing man work to get her focus back to him. Also, I'm not saying I'm basing my whole work on the book; it's just how I discovered the world and its glory. A bit more about me: I said I'm young, a student on my way to becoming a surgeon yet I yearn to enter either as an escort or "exotic dancer". We should keep it at that. I'm reading up on different techniques you guys use because I know I could use them against some unknowing men. I'm also looking into being able to detect liars through body language and speech. I keep myself rounded, well-educated on an array of topics to maintain interesting conversation. |
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| Author: | youngsweetjones [ Tue Jul 19, 2011 3:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl in the Community |
Quote: I'm using what I learn to help my male friends and even other girls find mates. I give them pointers from what I've learned and help them open to co-ed sets.
there should be more friends like you lol. welcome to the community.
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| Author: | kung fu mike [ Wed Jul 20, 2011 12:49 pm ] |
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Welcome and enjoy. Many good times ahead I'm sure. |
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