I will try to keep this post as detailed as possible so that any advice given to me will have a good idea of my position. I will however try to also get right to the point so it isnt a boring read.
Intro
MY name is Justin I'm 25 years old and I live in a normal city that surrounds other cities all within 20 min of each other. I consider myself a 7/10 slightly above average looking guy. I believe I have a phenomenal personality when it comes to integrity and being a good friend. I'm fun and outgoing ( in club settings ) I love to live life, I try to help my friends and people as much as possible, I also try not to be to nice and be a alpha male, I never lie or backstab my friends, I do whatever it takes to wingman people even let them have my apartment/bed and pretend I need to go somewhere just so they can score, Ill wake up at 3 am and pick my friends up if they are drunk no matter if I have work in the morning... basically I feel im a really nice, fun, guy and people should be lucky to be friends with me.
Problems/Concerns
I'm 25 years old and from 18-24 I did not go to college or do anything. I went through a rough time in my life and now pretty much only have 1 year worth of college. I feel this holds my confidence back a little bit for two reason
1. I go to 18 and up clubs rather then 21 and up places. My reason is that I look like im 21, act like im 21, and I'm in a position of a 21 year old in school and in my job ( 8 dollars an hour at meijer ).
2. I just feel more comfortable there
So my problem is when I meet some girls who are 18/19/20 and I tell them I'm 25 I feel that they might be slightly like oh really? and might be surprised to know I dont have a career or anything like that.
My next problem is my friends. The reason I feel this is a problem is because how can I impress girls and more so invite girls to come out with me with a weak social circle?
I have 3 main friends/people who I hang out with and I will bash them a little bit but its all true and not exaggerated.
1. A really fun, outgoing guy, who loves to party and go out and just go crazy! Problem is he has absolutely no game and creeps girls out way to hard. He also only goes out once a week and we only hang out to go to the club.
2. My other friend is really good looking but has a boring bland personality and jsut stands there. He is also super shady and lies to me and has stolen from me. He also lives far away and only hangs out with me once a while when he doesn't have anything else to do.
3. My other friend is all into the pau and picking up girls. However he is very selfish, doesn't honor the brocode, and has no respect for me or anybody else. But he goes out a lot and tries to meet girls.
How can I meet a girl and tell her hey! bring some friend or come out with me my buddies and I are gonna go bowling or do this or do that. When we dont do anything like that and if I convince and beg them to actually come out they are super awkward and its just weird.
my approach/mygame
I usually go the club and this is where I meet most of the girls. Usually 7/8 that are 18-21 years old. I see a girl I think is cute and I go up to her and ask her to dance. Then I leave and try to talk to another girl and just have a really good time. Then I will go back to the girl I was dancing with later in the night and say " I totally liked dancing with you until you stepped on my foot. which is not a big deal but I already stubbed my toe today like a clumsy goof! " " whats your name? " then I introduce myself and say something like " oh i was totally off beat Im a little drunk. " you know I wish they would play this song blah blah its my fav song right now whats your fav song? Oh and if she is with friends ill say is this your best friend and introduce myself and maybe throw a neg or two in there. Ill ask her where she is from and make up a story about that city as a neg. And then Ill say well come on we are dancing again and take her to the dance floor. Then I ask for the numer towards the end of the night, give her a hug and kiss on the cheek, and leave. During the talking I touch a little bit, tell her she is sexy, tell her she turned me on a little bit stuff like that.
After I have her number I text her a day or two and say "Seriously my toe still hurts urkel. Its ok though once im finished cooking this amazing meal ill feel better" ( If she tells me her fav song i say i jsut heard it and it reminded me of you )
Then I talk about what I'm cooking and go into that a little bit and just bullshit. Then Ill say I gtg sleep or gtg w/e I got work early whats your facebook? ill hit you up later.
Next day ill bullshit a little bit about work try to make some jokes and blah blah.
and this is where it ends... with every girl.
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