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| Author: | Donuts [ Thu Jun 09, 2011 10:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Hey guys new to the game: advice needed! |
This summer I am studying abroad in Barcelona, Spain before my senior year of college. After a few unsuccessful nights at the clubs, I was sitting on the beach with a buddy of mine smoking a Jay (a clear sign of a failed night) when I was approached by a French guy asking where I had gotten it, we started shooting the shit and girls came up- saying why aren't you guys hitting on any girls. I made some lame excuses and he told me fortune favors the bold, you can't get with any girls if you don't talk to them. Then he recommended The Game by Neil Strauss. I was skeptical until I saw him working some game on some near by girls. So I decided to read it, with some basic knowledge of the game I went back into the Bar/Club seen immediately I started noticing things like IOIs, AMOGs, and AFCs. If I could learn that much from just 100 pages of this book their must be an endless supply of knowledge that I have become eager to learn. It also forced me to acknowledge many of my fears opening, keeping the conversation going forward while keeping it interesting and seductive. I came to Barcelona by myself, which I now believe was one of the best things that happened to me it forced me to become a more outgoing person or else I would have wasted my time here and meet no one. After a group of kids from Texas befriended me I hung out with them and we did some sight seeing, immediately I had my eye on this one girl, I know they use HB but she is a CB8 or 9 (I changed it to cute babe- not sure if this exists or I just made it up). She is a really outgoing petite, blond girl, so we talked for a while during our trip and I got some good IOIs. Fast forward a few days I saw her at bar she gave me a warm welcome everything was going well got some more IOIs until her attention was taken from me by a AMOG if u can call him that more of a confident asshole. He was just using one cheesy line after another, and she was clearly rejecting him every time. (looking back I would have handled it differently I would have like to say to her if you are hanging out with me and ignoring him it would be really awkward to hit on u, but I kinda just took it in- any better advice to handle this kind of guy) As it got later in the night her roommate a 3 or 4 wanted to leave I asked for her number and they went on their way. The next day she texted me to study for our upcoming spanish tests. (huge IOI-it made my day) I am sure I am going to see her out again and I know I have all the signs to hookup with her, but I am not sure what the best way to convey that I am obviously interested and what to make it more sexual. Sorry for the long post but I had a lot to throw out there. Any Advice would be greatly appreciated thanks! |
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| Author: | Drunk Romeo [ Sat Jun 11, 2011 11:38 pm ] |
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The two biggest things I see is you need to kino(physical touching) more, and use more SOI's (Shows of interest). Physical touching is obviously one of the biggest things when it comes to attraction. It does not have to be kissing or grabbing her ass or anything. To start out small you might try hi fives or something. Then you kinda get closer and get your legs touching each other a couple of times and then so on. While you do this, you want to keep a conversation going and maybe use some SOI's. Not just things like..."Uh...hey i like you wanna go out sometime?" but sexual and funny things. One thing I have realized is that girls love their material possessions just as much if not more then guys do. So i like to get a conversation going about cars. Then the question comes up. HB:"Well DR what kind of car do you drive." Me: "You really dont get the full experience unless i show you."(thank you juggler) This usually gets other AMOG's interested because they all love talking about fucking cars and its not a bad thing because they shut up. Me: "Well i did not drive here tonight but you will have to see it sometime." AMOG: "I have a v6 mustang and its red so that means its fast!!"...nah jk that has never happened but they usually say something like that to get her interested in him. Me: "I would really rather you see it but i guess ill just tell you. Its a 2000 blue jeep grand cherokee Thats all i have for you. I have not been in the game long but i have a few success story's. Keep me updated. |
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