hi there captain!
you are lacking confidence.
that may happen sometimes.
one thing i have been noticing... and there is actually a controversy but i would advise you to test it in you. actually, with me is just working amasingly!!!
jerking off:
so, by masturbating, what we think would calm down our impatience, will actually, rellease some tension.
neverthelesse, it will also free up some more than that.., for instance, male hormones like testosterone.
what i have been noticing is then, by not jerking off, my levels have been staying higher and i have been feeling more outgoing lately and cocky
so, its like, if you "compress" your hormones, they start to exale in a pheromone way, and HB sense that.
regarding what you consider as a lack of an wingman, that's only your lack on confidence in yourself, thats your limiting beliefs getting in your head.
You are the MASTER of YOUR THOUGHS.
start by feeling good, and doing things that make you laugh like whatching sit coms and so... by doing this, you will release endorphin, the main feelin' good Hormone.
you will also be able to learn jokes in those sit coms that might come in handy later on the game.
please post up some feedback to get to know how its working out.
regards,
Jesus