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Author:  Reprazent [ Wed Apr 06, 2011 11:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Irish newbie looking for direction
Well lads! My name is Owen, I am 17 and I am just after ending a relationship with a lovely girl after one and a half years and I am back on the single wagon. After reading a couple of Adam Lyons articles on Askmen, I became instantly drawn to his advice and began looking for more. Me being a pua newbie had no idea who this Adam lyons bloke was. With google being my friend I've gone to Adams site to here and have my heart set on becoming a pro pua

Now I am not some nervous spastic and have no idea with woman. I am a very confident person and I dont mean this in a full of myself way but I believe I am good looking, gentlemanly but not a push over or wuss and I am comfortable with my body and I am not afraid to talk to random chicks be it in the street or pub. While I can score the occasional HB7-10 but I do not get the success I want and as often as I would want it, so now I am here.

I would appreciate if anyone of you season puas could give me a kick up to arse to get me going? I have read a few interesting posts but to become a mpua where do I start? I do not want to spend a lot of money on courses or bootcamps at the moment so any free advice or recommended articles for a newbie are greatly appreciated.

Cheers!
Author:  Byzantine [ Thu Apr 07, 2011 1:15 am ]
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Lol I almost didnt reply

Just saying you are a "pua" will make you a "pua" what does "pua" mean to you?
I know cool average guys who mostly just wear jeans and shirts with no money to their name who take awesome girls home and have great relationships without even knowing what a "pua" is.

Ask yourself, do I maybe just want to be a better person and have the success with women I deserve while keeping my integrity? I think so.

Just remember you're not a machine, or a PUA Athlete, this will confuse you, hinder your process and in extreme cases give you some very bad social habits.

Look into some challenges in this forum without using techniques right off the bat, ANY progress you can make WITHOUT routines is worth 100 number closes you could've done with someone else's lines or routines.

On a more positive note, Welcome! I hope you find what you're looking for and your first step should be setting up some realistic and healthy goals to get the ball rolling, I started with David DeAngelo, Im currently studying 60 years of challenge but for your age, I think indirect game will help you enjoy of a wider social circle.

Best Luck! ask away if needed.
Author:  Reprazent [ Thu Apr 07, 2011 3:37 pm ]
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Re-reading my post there I would not blame you for nearly not replying, I sound extremely douchie and clueless. I defiantly got off on the wrong foot there but oh well you cant take back a first impression.

Thank you for the welcome. Yes you summed it up a lot better then I did there on what I want from this site. Could you give me examples of "realistic healthy goals" please? I really don't see where I am faulting or what is a good place to start?

For example like there last night I got a rejection by following the general idea set by others here. There is a girl who works in a local shop whom I met in the shop after work during a week. We were very flirty and thought if I brought up the idea of a date or getting her number I would defiantly close well. So I had not seen her in about a week in a half because I have not been working nights and here she was last night. We get talking and I asked her about a funfair which came to town. She did not get the message first she thought with a group of friends but I corrected her. She seemed very shocked and stuttered but ended up coming out with "I have a lot going on at the moment". I kept smiling and said that's fine and began to leave where she kept apologising.

I guess its hard to describe fully without seeing it or starting a bigger wall of text but what could I have done there to turn it around or was she telling the truth about "having a lot on"?
Author:  Byzantine [ Fri Apr 08, 2011 3:19 am ]
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Healthy Goals: Anything you can realistically achieve, most of them short-ish term and a couple very important long-term ones to keep you going. Healthy goals would include Physical health-related, intellec2ual, professional, social, psychological, sexual etc. A good rule of thumbs: If you're going to do it, do it right, whatever it is or whoever she is 8)

Just think of the numbers dude, if you aproach 1 woman you might get 1/1 or 0/1 if you approach 100 and lets say extremely low you get with 10, thats 10/100 or you may be a stud and get up to 95/100, Im not telling you to hit on 100 women (in too short of a period of time) but to treat your interactions with women more realistically.

That girl could have some serious stuff going on in her life and here you are discussing her reasons on a forum, trust in Life, God, or anything and let go of people who are not giving you positive feedback and attention, approach people, everyone women, men, old and young (not too young) and keep in touch with everyone who gives your life something positive. Create your own awesome social circle of people who dont waste your time or are needy for validation.

Best Luck!
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