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| Author: | djsash [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 8:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | SOS. HELP ME |
First of all I would like to say hello to everybody, it is a pleasure for me to be part of the community. Now, i will go talk about my situation. Well, I am 18 and I have trouble approaching because I really don't know what to say or I just think it's not the right moment. I have some knowledge about "The Game " since I read Neil Strauss 's book. I know the "philosophy" of the game and I have a pretty basic overview of the whole thing and how it works. The problem is that I am not someone who is very social. Normally I just hang around with only 4 friends in highschool. I speak with other people of course, but just at school and i don't hang around with anyone apart from these friends. I guess we are considered "freaks" or so, although no one hates us or anything. They just.... ignore me/us. They don't "dislike" us but they don't "like" us either. Or at least most people. But I don't really have a problem with that, it's cool with everybody. The thing is that i realized that i have problems socializing out from school. I don't go out much. I started going out at night a few months ago but not with these friends. They don't like partying and all that. But i'm different. I have these two other friends which I hang out with more now so i'm kinda started to go out at night now. The main problem is that i'm 18 and i have never made out. I might not be very attractive but i'm not a monster xD. What I do know is that I have a poroblem and that it is up to me to find a solution. I have a problem when it comes to being in group or approaching people I don't know or I don't usually talk with. I keep thinking on things to say while they are in front of me but i keep saying to myself: "yeah, i'll say it later" or "now is not the moment" and at the end, I regret not doing it because the chance has gone by. Last week I was at an event with many other schools for a model of a political council. I didn't feel confident enough to approach anybody and I hated how other people just did it with no problem and got accepted easily. No one approached me although I don't complain for that. I started speaking with this girl which I had seen before but after I say 1 or 2 sentences I just can't figure out anything to say and I just stare to the flore saying: "sooooo, yeaaaah" and I just leave or she leaves. I just can't think of anything to say, really. So I want to develop easier in these situations because it isn't normal. I have this huge party with over 1500 people coming up in two weeks. I hope I can change drastically by then or at least learn my mistakes and change in some way. I don't wanna fark it up like I did last week. Also, in the party I don't think there will be many places to chill and talk cause it's a disco (I hope there is). So, any tip on that? Maybe you can post what you would do in my situation or maybe someone offers himself to be: "my master" or "tutor" to teach me in the next 2 weeks. I think I came to the best place. S.O.S |
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| Author: | BalancetheLot [ Wed Mar 09, 2011 7:40 am ] |
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Do you just wanna "make out" with a girl? Do you want a girlfriend thats hooked on you? What do you want dude? First figure that question out. "What do I want from "her"?" Then trust the MPUAs. I'm not one of them but I trust their work 100%. No bullshit. A small piece of advice from me to you about the approach...SMILE and don't break eye contact. Don't stare at her with bug eyes all sweating and shit though! The trick I use to look deep into a girl's eyes and make her stutter, make her giggle, make her smile back and blush for no reason other than that I am looking into her eyes and smiling myself? Simple: I smile a smile that hints that I know all her secrets already. This is subtle, non verbal game. If you like this style...seek out Gambler. |
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