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| Author: | no surrender [ Mon Feb 21, 2011 7:02 pm ] |
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for all the great tips so far. Just got a divorce and I wanted to get some game. I never was very good at meeting people but after looking back I don't think I did that badly. Most of the time I didn't get the people I wanted though but sort of settled for what I could get. I certainly fit the model of the AFC in my approach techniques. It seems like most of the women I dated before getting married were friends first and the relationships took the predictable course and were short lived due to my wimpyness. One interesting thing is that when I first met the women I married we weren't friends and I was rather aggressive in my approach. It was during a time when I stopped caring so much about the outcome and just went for what I wanted... and I got it! 12 years later I get divorced and now I find myself caring about the outcome to much again and I can see how it cripples my game. I still keep trying though hence the user name. Currently trying to work the dating sites and having no luck yet. I have passed on 2 situations in the real world because they looked like they could be or turn into a problem and I dont need that right now. I want to develop a natural approach because I really want a girlfriend rather then just a lay. I know that attitude doesn't help my game but Im trying to be honest with myself about what I want. Perhaps being recently divorced I should toss that idea and just think in the short term but its hard to bring myself to that place. Or perhaps Im trying to hard to find a replacement for the ex wife and I know that doesn't help or work out either. In any case Im here and ready to learn! |
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| Author: | LegitAlfa [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 4:19 am ] |
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Hi, Welcome to PUA forum! |
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