Hahha Ignore the title, I would like to introduce my self. I'm in my early 20s in the Midwest (U.S.A) I'm not really great with women, I seem to always mess up on the stupidest things. At times I feel I am socially retarded due to many different reasons. I'll briefly go over a few.
-I never dated during high school. ( Only once)
- I was obese in till I was 17, When I decided I would take the initiative to lose the weight, I'm now average weight.
-As previously stated I use to be really fat, I now have excess skin. Winch is always lingering in the back of my mind, its not very noticeable, but I have to be careful about the type of clothes I ware and how I move my body, I actively work out and maintain my diet in hopes that it will reduce its self in time, however my doctors and other health professionals feel that I need to have it removed via plastic surgery. ( as most know excess skin is very expensive to get rid of, and unfortunately I don't have the money to do it at the moment
)-Because I have excess skin, it brings down my confidence in general.
-I don't find my self that funny.
- I try to hard sometimes, but it feels like when I don't try at all, opportunities pass by.
Because I was obese for most of my younger life, I was very anti social, so talking to any one in general is hard for me, I try to talk to random when I'm out and about, but its hard for me to keep a conversation going.
Hahah what I guess I'm trying to say, is I'm lonely and I would really appreciate any help.
Sincerely.
Thank you so much for your advice.