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Author:  Devilite [ Mon Jan 31, 2011 9:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Hey guys, New here, could use some advice

Ok, nice to meet you all, im 16 years old, from Israel, i think i look pretty good, ok+, im really funny....
well the thing is, im extremmly unconfident...
i never had a girlfriend, nor kissed a girl.
i got a whole lot of friends, and girl friends, from most of the highschools, and grades in my city, so im pretty popular.

the problem is, i just cant open a conversation with a stranger, any stranger, especially with girls i never met.
so ive started to get into this pickup thing, for the past weeks, i read articles, saw videos, read about the biggest puas in the world, i know all the key words(IOI, NEG, DHV etc.) a lot of techniques, how to open sets, routines, EVERYTHING
but i know this wont help me in any way, if i dont go to the field...
but i just cant, i find it pretty hard to go to a hot chick and ask her what time it is(dam im so pathetic)
i really wanna take this seriously,
wat do you think i should do?

thx,
Devilite

Author:  C.Dribs [ Tue Feb 01, 2011 1:20 am ]
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"Whether you think you can or think you can't - you are right." ~Henry Ford

"Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong. " ~Peter T. Mcintyre

"If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves." ~Thomas Alva Edison

"Your problem is you're... too busy holding onto your unworthiness." ~Ram Dass

Here are some quotes which I hope you take to heart and help you with your confidence issue. I was very self-conscious and had low self esteem until I did one thing that changed it, at least in my opinion. I acted confident even when I didn't feel it. I pretended to know what I was doing even when I was unsure, and eventually people believed I was confident, and them believing i was confident made me believe I was confident.

Fake confidence -> People belief of your confidence -> Belief of your own confidence

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