hey guys
I am glad that i found an forum with such a wide range & an obviously really active and experienced community.
Ruff data about me:
27 yo, overweight, nervous around women I'm interested in, absolute virgin in "being intimate with a women".
How did i come to this:
Well, at a certain point in my life, i thought that i did know what i had to to in order to have an good, right and happy life.
I was not able to understand, that this illusion was mainly made of wrong self-beliefs, not being able to face fears and other misconceptions. Not to mention social pressure, family ties & cultural conditioning.
Well, as i saw me getting more and more unfulfilled, sad and later even slightly depressed... It made me change things.
In the beginning i did the changes mostly unconsciously and without proper instruction. But as i really started to walk along my own path, i started reading stuff, getting more information and reflecting my behaviours more accurately.
I'm not too much into PUA itself, as i actually had never a problem talking to people and get good reactions. The main topics i find interesting in Pickup are "inner game" (read ALOT about this on Mark Mansons site), the analysis of male/female interaction and finally the fact that many guys in the community are very experience and thus can give good advice with reflecting.
Thanks for reading this and see you in those other subforums
Greets
DDB