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| Author: | redemptionpua [ Tue Jan 04, 2011 5:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Redemption is here!! |
Hey All, I'm Redemption. I'm from New York City. Why did I choose the name redemption? Because that's what I'm here for. Not revenge, redemption. That's my goal, its set. Also, I'm not looking to bag 1000s of girls, I'm in this more for the science (doesn't that just sound so weird?) and to eventually find one girl that's worth marrying, although granted I might have to go through a few along the way. I like setting goals, it helps me focus. My story is this. I'm in my mid 20's. I have a Phd. I spent almost 8 years in school, (started college when I was 17) to get this damn thing. While I've had a pretty awesome life, both professionally and in terms of life experiences and doing awesome things, my story with women has been somewhat less than stellar. Physically, I'm decent looking, not ugly but not gorgeous, though I do have blond hair and green eyes. Also, I neglected physical fitness and was therefore overweight since high school, but over the last 6 months I started working on myself overall and part of that was getting to the gym. I've lost 45 pounds. To make a long story short, despite being smart, having decent money and living an awesome life, my girl situation has almost always sucked. I was a geek in high school, (not socially awkward, I do well socially) and focused on school work and grades. I would talk to girls and hang out with groups of girls or including girls and just never felt the need to date. I realize in hindsight that was the stupidest missed opportunity. College was more of the same although there were hookups here and there. A couple of years ago my dream girl and I started getting together and she ended up stringing me along and breaking my heart. What made it worse was that it was obvious she liked me and she ended up getting married a few months ago to a kid who I mentored all through high school, who is pretty much just like me. She married the closest thing to me, without it actually being me. How fucked up is that? After that episode I knew things had to change dramatically. I'm here for redemption. I've been working on myself to get to the top of my game, whether it be physically or mentally. After all isn't what the point of all this is, self development? Don't call it a transformation, so much as a natural progression. I would love nothing more than to one day be able to seduce her and steal her away from her husband, although I haven't explicitly set that as a goal. What I have set as a goal is to ultimately find the one girl worth marrying and starting a life with. I want kids, I want suburbs, I want all that shit. It just has to be with someone who is into growing and will help me keep growing and vice-versa. Game-wise, I think I am coming into the community backwards. I had already been studying NLP, persuasion and psychology and then discovered this. I just recently started reading PUA literature. I stumbled upon "The Game" from some other stuff I was reading related to psychology. I read alot of Tim Ferris and I think that's where I first read about it. Or maybe, I read about "Emergency" first and then "The Game". I finished that and read a couple of pieces of "Mystery Method" and now it's time to start putting it into practice. What's funny is through all this, I'm realizing that my real passion is psychology and I should have studied psych and become a psychologist--I would have been the re-incarnation of Freud. Thanks for having me. Redemption is here. Things are about to change, dramatically. R |
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