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Author:  MsNoca [ Fri Dec 24, 2010 12:37 pm ]
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I've already introduced myself but I will give you a qucik bio. I am 33 female from the midwest. I have an interest in puas. I am not really hear to give my female perspective but to offer my wisdom and knowledge about Game. I was involved with several pua for a decade and I have been skooled to the Game. I also work with men on how to have game and how to step up their game. Because of this, my opinions and input is not average of a female.

With that being said. I have been reading posts and have been in the general chat room and you guys all seem to be really nice! That is not usually the case with puas. Just sayin....
Author:  cottonopolis [ Mon Dec 27, 2010 12:54 pm ]
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Hi, I read your post:
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I am not really hear to give my female perspective but to offer my wisdom and knowledge about Game. I was involved with several pua for a decade and I have been skooled to the Game. I also work with men on how to have game and how to step up their game.
Well I'm a single male and gave up completely on women because of lack of success and other issues, to concentrate on my job and financial security. Now, virtually retired, I have time to try again from where I left off. I have no game to speak of and need to get a life as well. Strong AA kept me semi-depressed for many years but I was too dumb to realize, and the 3 second rule has already given me a break. I've joined a social club, go alone to cafes, pubs etc. and need to make some progress before it's too late. The age issue is bothering me. There are a lot of young and old women, but not many in the mid age range, which is what I want.

Can the game be applied generally, or do I have to focus my age group?
To get some confidence I need to see some success without any more major failures. I'm looking for ideas...
Author:  MsNoca [ Mon Dec 27, 2010 3:04 pm ]
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The guy I am working with now is 40 and he is the oldest of the men I have worked with. I am focusing more on his inner game. I think if you focus on building yourself up to having a strong frame, then you could very well find success with the concepts talked about here. My only caution to you is extreme negging. As women mature,their confidence level usually rises so they may not respond the same way to a negg. Focus on building your inner game and you should be just fine. All women desire to have a man that is socially confident! Good luck! You can do it! :)
Author:  cottonopolis [ Mon Dec 27, 2010 10:17 pm ]
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To continue...
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My only caution to you is extreme negging.
This is all new to me. I would never have dreamt of "negging" a woman unless she was stealing notes from my wallet or throwing glasses about the room. Fun and jokes are not my strong points - as you can see.

So I read a little and it says "negging" (of 9s & 10s) to remove the bitch shield and gain respect. This sounds more like cyber-warfare, not making friends and socialising!

From this, I assume: 9s & 10s may be nice sweet girls inside but they HAVE to have a bitch shield to protect themselves - So I have to get through the bitch shield.

Interesting stuff, but I'm only aiming for 4s & 5s to get started. The weapons you suggest could be really dangerous in my untrained hands! (a neg?)
Author:  MsNoca [ Tue Dec 28, 2010 12:58 am ]
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I like to think of negging as a way to get the ball in your court. Even 4's and 5's can have a bitch shield. Negging is a big part of game and a big part of being a pua. Why are you interested in this site? Are you aspiring to be a pua?
Author:  cottonopolis [ Tue Dec 28, 2010 3:50 pm ]
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I'm grateful for comments and any info I can use.
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Why are you interested in this site? Are you aspiring to be a pua?
Well, I want to get laid, of course, get a girl/women friend(s) and have more fun in life, especially more sex. I come over really serious, and I have to change this - I know I can. Becoming a full blown PUA would be asking too much, but if these routines etc. work, then I want a share of the action! I've succeeded in other areas of life, now I want the pleasure of sex which I put on hold - it hasn't gone away!

Of course, I have to read more of the basic material, but feedback from you and others with experience of the game helps. I found that the 3 second rule works, now I want to find out if other routines work for me.
Author:  MsNoca [ Wed Dec 29, 2010 7:46 pm ]
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The guy I am working with now wants to get laid as well. I recommend you study the fundamentals of gaming and devlop a strong inner game and go from there.
How social are you? Do you go out to coffee shops, etc on a regular basis? How do you plan on meeting women that you would want to have sex with?
Author:  cottonopolis [ Thu Dec 30, 2010 12:59 am ]
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I think I can find the material and put it to work eventually. Trouble is I'm impatient, and need to move quickly without too many setbacks. I already have 2nd meeting with someone I met "cold" in the street, went to a cafe with her and got phone no. Now she's got flu (genuine), have to rearrange it.

I think I've already dumped a lot of old trash, honest.
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How do you plan on meeting women that you would want to have sex with?
Well, I suppose it's a "scatter gun" method, making approaches in cafes, pubs, and the social club (bar/artists/pool, etc.) I've joined. I aso travel to a nearby city occasionally with a married colleague (male) but with no plan what to do there. I have'nt needed a car for many years, and I suspect this is a big turn-off for women. Don't really want to get a car again.

Why do you want to coach others? Has it developed into a hobby, because you have more than enough sex to handle? Just curious, as always!
I'll be ok if you want to drop the thread, otherwise I'd best PM you.
Author:  Cogito [ Thu Dec 30, 2010 1:34 am ]
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To get some confidence I need to see some success without any more major failures.
I know how you feel! I once heard this described in a video as the The Beginner's Paradox. The YouTuber--RyanDotTv, who posted this video has posted a ton of other PUA instructional videos and I spent one entire weekend just watching all of them. It helps to see these things demonstrated on video as opposed to just reading them.

Also I think a wingman can be an invaluable asset to help observe your technique, give you pointers, and help you get into sets that might be hard to get into otherwise. You just need to find a friend who is willing to go out to the clubs with you, or whatever venues you prefer to sarge in.

I'm brand new at this too, so that's all I've got so far. I wish you luck!
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