honestly pal, dont worry about it! this time last year I was in your shoes but 1 year younger. I can tell you now that having sex for the first time is a big deal untill you do it, then you are not bothered!
I was lucky enough to meet a nice girl at uni who i went out with for a year and recently broke up with on good terms. Now if you have no game like i used to then starting is the hardest part, there is a lot of material out there telling you what you should do, the truth is its all about doing the stuff that you are comfortable with and you think works for you! its all about playing to your strengths! Now i am absolutely terrible at chatting up girls but i am very comfortable on the dancfloor and pulled the fittest girl in my society at uni last friday.
I remember being at a cross roads where I had to make a decision, do I continue being the same guy who is shy and useless and never gets the guy or am I gonna be the guy that goes out there and makes the most of every opportunity. im not gonna lie its very hard to start with, that little voice in your head is your worst nightmare, the i started looking at it was that if i try to meet a girl in a club and it goes horribly wrong(and believe me it has), I just think... I will probably never see this person again in my life so why do i care what she thinks! and the more you try, the more you get turned down the easier it becomes. then when you start not to care what people say or think or if this girl is gonna like you or not thats when you are on your way! Im not gonna lie, if i go out and someone thinks im an idiot or they are not interested im not bothered in the slightest!
I might sound like i dont have a clue what im on about but trust me im talking sense! just go out there and make the most of your life, you only get one chance so make the most of it!
any questions pal and im happy to help!
gd luck!
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Perhaps it was just luck.